It's become so prevalent in society these days so I'm curious on everyone's opinions. Personally for me, I don't mind it as long as everyone is willing to understand things from the others point of view. However, I don't see myself marrying someone outside of my race even though I've dated outside my race a bunch of times.
I’ve been in a few interracial relationships… You get a lot of weird stares… especially if you’re a Black woman dating outside your race… I get stared at like, “why are they together?” Not the curious stares that I see others get… I don’t understand why Americans are so focused on race in a negative sense.. it’s a beautiful thing to meet others and share your cultures and learn about others… why limit yourselves? But, after all of the hate and negativity that I’ve experienced, I’m kind of thinking of changing that… I may start focusing on my people who look like me… As a sad as that sounds..
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I know exactly what you mean! Sorry that the negative responses are making you feel that way though. I hope whomever you end up with loves you for you❤
It's not a big deal. I'm a black woman dating a white man; we have been together for 6-7 years now.
We are just a couple; there is nothing different about us than any other couple. I hate when people immediately point out that I'm dating a white guy! Why is that so weird or odd? I find it funny it's 2021, soon to be 2022, yet race is still a big deal! Especially in certain parts of the States. I will be so happy when interracial dating is seen as just "dating" without having to specify you're dating someone of another race.
We are all humans. The color of one's skin shouldn't matter. Some "whites" are pink while others are tan. Some "blacks" are dark black while others are light brown.
I know a few interracial married couples... perfectly normal marriages.
I think it is absolutely ridiculous that anyone would have a problem with two people of any background loving each other. If anyone has a problem with interracial dating, then they probably don't understand what love is.
My entire dating life has almost always been interracial since I'm two different races and I've dated guys of almost every race, but I honestly don't think about race. I see us all as the human race.
Chances are, I'll end up married with someone of a different race.
I honestly don't care. Skin color is just color. I dated white guys before and I never had a problem with it. I don't mind dating outside my race, if they aren't racist and their family members aren't racist and make race related jokes then I'm okay with it. If they have racist family that make race related jokes then it's an automatic no.
I've dated within my race and outside. I was treated with more respect by guys outside my race than within it. I personally don't want to be treated like trash. I'm really not out here troubling anyone. I just want to live my life and be happy. Just like everyone else.
In all honesty I see people, I'm aware of the difference but deep down we all want and need the same things.
Absolutely nothing, it just a thing that happens. It really does not bother me, far to many seem to have these hang ups, often racist ones about skin colour and dating, relationships.
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I agree. A lot of the times it comes with this weird racist undertones. Or just sheer ignorance. But it's still something largely misunderstood in this generation and because it's become so popular I'm just curious to see people's opinions on it
I don't care. And yes, the love of my life was white, as well. Let people date whoever they wish, as long as they aren't tricking or abusing the other party.
I think people shouldn't make so terrible judgments or comments about people who they are with or what race they are or whos someone's sexuality or what kind of disability they have or anything and they should be able to choose and without big judgments or comments and be free with whomever they choose to love. I think interracial dating is good. All of us are human and we only live once so don't waste time being badly closed-minded and let people be whoever they want with whoever they want.
I am white and married to a woman who is also white, but her skin color had nothing to do with it. In the end, YOU are responsible for your own happiness, and you shouldn't sacrifice it over the opinions of people who don't love you.
from a biological standpoint, interracial dating is superior. cause the point of procreation biologically speaking is: increasing genetic diversity in the human species. by sticking with your race, you don't do that as well. by dating interracialy, you maximize the genetic diversity, meaning you're doing biologically the best thing for humanity.
Doesn't matter to me. I am happy for people that found someone that made them happy. Idc, if they are the same race, or gender. What matters is if they make eachother happy
It's sorta racist to see a problem with this... Like who cares? Just as long as you don't rape people ur a human just like me. I'm color blind, idc about that shallow shit
lions and tigers can mate, but in nature they don't. It only occurs in a zoo where man influences the situation. I think interracial dating would not happen often without societal influence or unless a person felt they could not get a "good" mate of their own race
So why did slave masters bred with slaves then? I’m just curious… most of the people who are against interracial couples look similar to the slave masters… they started it and now they hate it because some people are in love and having mixed kids that are LOVED.. that’s funny right?
I'm Caucasian and I started dating Native and Asian women back in the early 2000's. We didn't even think of it as something to fuss about, and nobody really used the word "Interracial" back then. We just dated, partied together, hooked up and loved each other. We didn't discuss our race and after years of living with an Asian woman I kinda forgot she was even Asian. She was just my wife, that's how I saw her.
It doesn't matter 🤷♀️ never noticed this being a topic until I joined here tbh
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You're 15, still young. Still a lot to see and hear out in the world. I'm new here and didn't know this was a topic often brought up on here though. Thanks for letting me know!!
I find it very attractive also i like black men who if i get a chance i would love to date a black guy i find them very strong and attractive
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My question to you is why date someone outside of your race if you have no intentions to marry them, If I date a girl or woman outside of my race, I hope that she wants to marry me if things are going good?
I don't know what you're going on about now lmfao. But yeah if you don't have an opinion on it then commenting is kinda counterproductive. To each is their own at the end of the day though🤗
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