We had such good chemistry and nothing felt forced. Tbh I could feel our coworkers thinking: "Get a room u two."😂
We have so much in common and he's always is excited to see me. As am I to see him. We've hung out multiple times, cuddled, held hands, and I even spent the night at his house. We spend our breaks together and whenever I don't feel well he gets me water or medicine. He's a big old sweetheart.😊💜
We obviously like each other but we haven't said anything. I tried to get my feelings across so he'd ask me out by sneaking him a kiss on the cheek and then saying bye right before my three day break for Christmas😂 That was gonna give him something to think about.😂 But we just texted like normal.
Were very comfortable around each other and I want him to be comfortable with me enough to ask. I'm also afraid to ask but I kinda want to ask if he wants to go on a date. So instead of using words I was thinking that after we hang out in the next two days on Wednesday, i sneak him a peck on the lips instead of the cheek. I've only kissed one guy before so i'm not very confident but I wanna try.
Should I do this or wait and just have fun like we've been doing? And wait for him to take the lead on this? My coworkers keep saying: "Get jiggy with it girl😂" But that's not my style and they know it.
What should I do?
But I'm not gonna kiss him. I'm gonna enjoy what were doing now cause we have a lot of time and he's even said that he just wants to spend time with me. And I want to soend time with him so I don't want to move too fast.
We went to his house and talked for an hour about important stuff before a relationship. And we are now dating!! Its official!!
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I think the feelings are mutual. He may just not want to ruin a good thing so he’s apprehensive. I agree that you may need to ask to go out on a date. Like dinner or coffee. When your done a kiss on the cheek or mouth would be fine.
Honestly, I was always so awkward with dating. When I really liked someone, I was always thinking of them and how I didn’t want to ever come on too strong. I was always a gentleman. Sometimes I had all the signs in front of me to go ahead, but I truly was oblivious. Some guys are just like that. He might need a little nudge. Sounds like he’s very thoughtful and already showing signs that makes me think he cares about you a lot.
That’s great news. Sounds like it is meant to be.