Well due to men always being expected to make the first move and be the initiators, do the pursuing, asking out, I feel that's probably why far more men than women end up remaining a virgin later than normal or going very far into adulthood without ever having dated anyone or been in a relationship before.
Whenever you hear of someone reaching such as 30 or 40 like that, the person in that situation is almost always a guy or male.
soory you haven't found aobuy that will love you for who you are, what you are... we are out there... not all men are looking for a Barbie with a boob job
shut up and don’t speak again until you make a tinder account with an average man for 2 weeks. Then compare it to a tinder account of an average women. Women who have done this get incredibly depressed and can empathize
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"I see a lot on here about how men have it harder when dating. I don't really get how when there's wiggle room for men to get a woman. Being tall will get you a woman. Good looks will get you a woman. Good personality will get you a woman. Money will get you a woman. However, for women we have to be attractive or were F**ked. There's no wiggle room for us."
You're talking about 20% of total male population ie high profile men. Yes they have it even easier than women in dating but other 80% men really have it harder especially if they're not good looking and not rich.
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Ok. So How do the 80% of men (unattractive population) Have it harder than the unattractive population of women? That's what I'm asking.
Oh please, it's harder because women expect a lot from a guy, not just tall and good looking, but fit body, big genitals, experience in the bed room, confidence, good personality, high paying job that earns big money and a lot more
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Ok. So let's say women don't want those guys and let's say guys don't want unattractive women. How does the unwanted men have it harder than the unwanted women?
Because girls still got tits and pussy, I mean no offense but guys will easily get into a relationship just for the sex alone despite the attraction of a woman, though guys have nothing to offer if they are unattractive all over
No I said it easy for girls to get into relationships, guys have it harder, girls can easily get guys one way or another, most guys have to try or lie to get to the next step with a woman, it's like job interview
Yes it does I’m nice and it’s hard for guys like me to find girls Bc they just wanna sleep with the most popular people so yes it actually does answer this that’s what the hardship is And u don’t need to say women also have it harder it’s not about women rn u asked about men so u didn’t need to say also women
Oh please, women in their teens and twenties absolutely have all the power in the dating game. The smart ones will take full advantage of that during those years and find themselves a good man as a life partner, because one they reach their 30s they lose that power and men hole the reins.
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They have the "power" because men give it to them. So many of you are after that age group. You guys enable it.
You have the eggs and the uterus, and the beauty and sexual attractiveness required to attract men to fertilize them. Men have the testosterone pulsing through their veins that makes them desperate to have sex with you. That's why women have the luxury of sitting back and allowing men to pursue them, because men in their 20s have been cursed with an almost insatiable need to have sex. That gives women the power at that age, and it's purely a result of nature.
Then how come the nature power doesn't work that well when the woman is ugly? Seems like the guys are picky with these spells. Interesting. You mentioned that nature gives women the power for men to have sex with them but you didn't say nature gives women the power for men to give them relationships. Which circles me back to my question. The question is based on the wants. Most men want sex, most women want relationships. That means it's hard for the unattractive man to get sex but it's also hard for the unattractive woman to get a relationship. How does the unattractive man have it harder than the unattractive woman?
You're not wrong about ugly women having less power that other women, but there are a hell of a lot more ugly men than there are ugly women. Women before age 30 hold the power in dating.
It makes sense how women under 30 hold power. They are the most attractive to most men when they are in their 20s. But the ugly ones don't get such power. And yes, you're right. There are more undesired men than there are women.
You shot yourself in the foot and the fact that you don't see it is pathetic.
LIKE YOU YOURSELF SAID.. men have to be attractive and have a bunch of other things. Women just need to be attractive. See how I basically just summed up your post?
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I meant that separately. That's why there's a period after each one.
So a tall ugly guy with a bad personality can get girls? Maybe if he plays in the NBA. Otherwise your fantasy about guys is just that.
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You're wrong, just read the answers on here. Women are heartbreakers and dump guys for little reasons. You have to have all the qualities you mentioned plus a big cock, and the girl would still have a bunch on guy friends. So because of that, women are making it harder for themselves in the long run ironically.
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This doesn't answer my question on how men have it harder. This is just a story on how you were done. Sorry that happened to you but You need to find solace and heal.
If you go on any dating site, women have 50 messages and I have 1. I'm tall, college educated, strong, nice and I make friends every where I go, plus more. I just talk from experience. Women have it easier. Sure there are lots of rotten guys out there, no morals, criminal, cheaters. But nice guys have it harder to find someone than a cute girl does.
@taylorallen Sure some do, but you're still young so you can see the big picture after time goes by, but I wish you good luck for your generation. There are lots of rotten people in the world, men and women, be careful.
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An attractive woman only need to be attractive, an attractive man is still expected to do everything.
https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MenActWomenAre
This piece isn't based on the attractive male. It's grouped with other male traits in characters. This doesn't prove your point.
Well due to men always being expected to make the first move and be the initiators, do the pursuing, asking out, I feel that's probably why far more men than women end up remaining a virgin later than normal or going very far into adulthood without ever having dated anyone or been in a relationship before.
Whenever you hear of someone reaching such as 30 or 40 like that, the person in that situation is almost always a guy or male.
How do men have more wiggle room?
soory you haven't found aobuy that will love you for who you are, what you are... we are out there... not all men are looking for a Barbie with a boob job
shut up and don’t speak again until you make a tinder account with an average man for 2 weeks. Then compare it to a tinder account of an average women. Women who have done this get incredibly depressed and can empathize
"I see a lot on here about how men have it harder when dating. I don't really get how when there's wiggle room for men to get a woman. Being tall will get you a woman. Good looks will get you a woman. Good personality will get you a woman. Money will get you a woman. However, for women we have to be attractive or were F**ked. There's no wiggle room for us."
You're talking about 20% of total male population ie high profile men. Yes they have it even easier than women in dating but other 80% men really have it harder especially if they're not good looking and not rich.
Ok. So How do the 80% of men (unattractive population) Have it harder than the unattractive population of women? That's what I'm asking.
Yes, unattractive have it easier than unattractive men
*Yes, unattractive women have it easier than unattractive men
Oh please, it's harder because women expect a lot from a guy, not just tall and good looking, but fit body, big genitals, experience in the bed room, confidence, good personality, high paying job that earns big money and a lot more
Ok. So let's say women don't want those guys and let's say guys don't want unattractive women. How does the unwanted men have it harder than the unwanted women?
Because girls still got tits and pussy, I mean no offense but guys will easily get into a relationship just for the sex alone despite the attraction of a woman, though guys have nothing to offer if they are unattractive all over
Yes, I completely agree with this. if guys are easily getting in relationships for sex then guys know most women want relationships.
No I said it easy for girls to get into relationships, guys have it harder, girls can easily get guys one way or another, most guys have to try or lie to get to the next step with a woman, it's like job interview
"guys will easily get into a relationship just for the sex alone despite the attraction of a woman"?
Not all guys, prob desperate lonely guys
I’m tall I’m blue eyed
yet girls will still go out with five guys a week and date each one for months and move on
Doesn't answer the question on how guys have it harder than the women who also have it hard.
Yes it does
I’m nice and it’s hard for guys like me to find girls Bc they just wanna sleep with the most popular people so yes it actually does answer this that’s what the hardship is
And u don’t need to say women also have it harder it’s not about women rn u asked about men so u didn’t need to say also women
No the question is how do men have it harder. Thanks.
Yes that’s the reason
Girls don’t care about personality etc
They just want yk
Oh please, women in their teens and twenties absolutely have all the power in the dating game. The smart ones will take full advantage of that during those years and find themselves a good man as a life partner, because one they reach their 30s they lose that power and men hole the reins.
They have the "power" because men give it to them. So many of you are after that age group. You guys enable it.
You have the "power" because nature gave it to you. But regardless, you have the power, and that is the point of this question, is it not?
How did nature give young women the power?
You have the eggs and the uterus, and the beauty and sexual attractiveness required to attract men to fertilize them. Men have the testosterone pulsing through their veins that makes them desperate to have sex with you. That's why women have the luxury of sitting back and allowing men to pursue them, because men in their 20s have been cursed with an almost insatiable need to have sex. That gives women the power at that age, and it's purely a result of nature.
Then how come the nature power doesn't work that well when the woman is ugly? Seems like the guys are picky with these spells. Interesting. You mentioned that nature gives women the power for men to have sex with them but you didn't say nature gives women the power for men to give them relationships. Which circles me back to my question. The question is based on the wants. Most men want sex, most women want relationships. That means it's hard for the unattractive man to get sex but it's also hard for the unattractive woman to get a relationship. How does the unattractive man have it harder than the unattractive woman?
You're not wrong about ugly women having less power that other women, but there are a hell of a lot more ugly men than there are ugly women. Women before age 30 hold the power in dating.
It makes sense how women under 30 hold power. They are the most attractive to most men when they are in their 20s. But the ugly ones don't get such power. And yes, you're right. There are more undesired men than there are women.
You shot yourself in the foot and the fact that you don't see it is pathetic.
LIKE YOU YOURSELF SAID.. men have to be attractive and have a bunch of other things. Women just need to be attractive. See how I basically just summed up your post?
I meant that separately. That's why there's a period after each one.
Why would you mean it separately?
So a tall ugly guy with a bad personality can get girls? Maybe if he plays in the NBA. Otherwise your fantasy about guys is just that.
You're wrong, just read the answers on here. Women are heartbreakers and dump guys for little reasons. You have to have all the qualities you mentioned plus a big cock, and the girl would still have a bunch on guy friends. So because of that, women are making it harder for themselves in the long run ironically.
This doesn't answer my question on how men have it harder. This is just a story on how you were done. Sorry that happened to you but You need to find solace and heal.
guys don't do the same?
If you go on any dating site, women have 50 messages and I have 1. I'm tall, college educated, strong, nice and I make friends every where I go, plus more. I just talk from experience. Women have it easier. Sure there are lots of rotten guys out there, no morals, criminal, cheaters. But nice guys have it harder to find someone than a cute girl does.
@taylorallen Sure some do, but you're still young so you can see the big picture after time goes by, but I wish you good luck for your generation. There are lots of rotten people in the world, men and women, be careful.
Your list for guys is soooo far off in the real dating world. Lol
our erections are harder than women's erections
What are you even saying
What are you even saying?
Opposite of whatever you are saying lol
We have a penis. It gets hard.
yeah impretty tall but no girl ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
There's other ways. Personality?
@wish_i_had_a_gf
How tall are you? And how picky are you being?
@MCheetah only 6'5"
and not very picky
If you're 6'5" and aren't seriously dating by now, then you must be doing something SERIOUSLY wrong.
I am not sure