My boyfriend of a year is VERY low effort, low effort with school (can't even go a semester without taking a gap), doesn't go out much, etc. In the beginning of our relationship we never had any stereotypical first dates because it was the quarantine. However, now that things have gotten more normal over the past few months he has only taken me to a sit down date... ONCE. We didn't even do anything for our anniversary even though I got him gifts, he didn't do anything for me, not even to make up for it. I have recently been stressing how I want to go on actual dates and I don't think he is even capable of planning one. I do not want to take the lead and show him because I want him to just be a man and look it up or even ask me. For the next time I see him I do not plan on meeting him at his house unless he has a set place to take me. Am I wrong for this? Is there something I should be doing or is there something I am missing?
Low Effort Boyfriend?
