Is it normal for a guy to lose interest in his girlfriend because she lacks confidence? (Page 2)

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Now I’ve read stories from men admitting and women saying: That their husband/boyfriend broke up with her. Because she was fat/obese. (This is the most common story of why a guy broke up with his wife/girlfriend. And cheating too.)  But…  I’ve never read/heard of a guy losing interest in his girlfriend because she lacks confidence.  Which is something I’m experiencing in my situation/ex relationship.  ……………  As I entered in Long Distance Relationship. My ex boyfriend told me about his hopes and dreams about us starting a future together. I took this seriously and wanted to handle this responsibility. I was doing research about Long Distance Relationships, looking into k-1/k-3 visas, cost on travel, journal for emotions, talking to my parents about him. I was laying out a plan for a successful relationship in the future for us. But, I noticed he was not putting in the effort the way I was……  when I questioned him about it. His response was; “look, we both need to focus on ourselves right now. I need to finish school and you need to focus on yourself too. You are insecure and lack confidence. I do want a relationship with you, but not with you like this.” This broke me 💔 and killed my motivation of planning our future together.

James899 · Answer

Its completely his personal views. Boys do like girls like you who is more concern about the future and life.

moviedude714 · Answer

Not as much since it seems women are not valued for their confidence as much as men are

Capt_Obvious · Answer

My wife has no idea how beautiful or smart she really is..  Thats what makes her so awesome!

pizzalovershouse · Answer

No he should help her feel more confident in her abilities in things she can do well

Shy_Steve · Answer

No, It's way more common for a Girl to lose interest in a Guy because he lacks Confidence.

InferiorElegy · Answer

Just like females will lose interest in guys for the same reasons, guys will as well.

Ttsjch · Answer

No. People grow out of insecurities. It’s only a problem if she puts him through it (toxic behaviour).

Slim57 · Answer

If she's annoying about it eventually it would get tiring I'm sure

bellagirlie · Answer

Yeah people will change who they are and you might not like the new person the same

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I know that kills my interest pretty quick

Luopio27 · Answer

I realy dont care over confidence levels.

BuBBaG77 · Answer

B confident!! Its sexy

Is it normal for a guy to lose interest in his girlfriend because she lacks confidence? (Page 2)

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