How can a girl in a relationship resist so much temptation from other men who pursue her?

Question

I am a man and I am quite good looking, many people say that I am handsome. My girlfriend is beautiful. Girls approach me once in a blue moon and my girlfriend is approached more often by men. How can she still be faithful to me? I wonder if I could still be faithful to her if I got so much attention from women.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If she’s a high value woman, who respects her body, fears STDs, respects her partner, respects her family if she’s a mother. She will be faithful to her man. No questions asked.

I met a 24 year old attractive woman. She met a handsome Brad Pitt/ John Travolta Supervisor at her new job. She told everyone about how she is married and had 2 kids and lives with her husband and 2 kids. After one month she was no longer wearing the marriage ring because BRAD PITT had flirted with her and made her feel special because he’s BRAD PIT CHAD. Soon we all found out that she had cheated on her Husband and 2 kids and caught HPV from BRAD PITT over there. Brad Pitt also had 2 kids, was a relentless cheater and had ZERO respect for women or his employees.

(Trash People are trash and belong to the streets. They can be male or female. It doesn’t really matter. Trust your gut when it comes to people. Trust your intuition. Pay attention to patterns of behavior. Pay attention to personality and body language.)

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

You keep a woman loyal by forming an emotional connection with her and showing her you value her and building memories with her and spending time with her. If a guy I don’t know approaches me, there’s a 99% chance I will reject him because I don’t have an emotional connection with him. With a friend that I consider ethical and kind, the rejection rate is lower if I’m single and if I’m in a happy relationship, the rejection rate for guys hitting on me is 100%.

Heartache0405 · Accepted Answer

You can’t. When some other guy comes along with more to give her than you can, she’ll cheat. Women cheat for the emotions while men cheat for sex. And women are the gatekeepers of sex so if women didn’t allow men to have sex with them when they’re taken already men wouldn’t be getting away with the act of cheating. This is why I don’t do relationships. Because I consider far too much to be cheating. My heart is too large and my jealousy is too strong. And jealousy is what pushes women away into the arms of another man so I’d rather accept single life. Women are untrustworthy and Unloyal no matter what anyone says. You’llcome to find that out on your own eventually

Vegasrunner · Accepted Answer

Very good question. First part is an easy answer. No you could not he faithful if you were approached at the same rate as she is. W/ that said one of the things you need to understand is that she is always going to be approached by men and if the thought of her being faithful to you is the issue, you should let her go now. If you can be selfless and remain confident, then my advice would be don't concern yourself w/ who approaches her just make sure you keep improving yourself, dont get complacent and think because you have a hot chick your job is done. Is your current girlfriend the hottest girl you've ever been with?

desidoll · Answer

It is a struggle for her trust me. I am in the same boat and my boyfriend knows it. Worse is when you are already in a monogamy relationship, there are so many interesting/good looking people come into your life but you have to tell yourself that the grass is always greener on the other side. Best is to focus and stay faithful to your partner whom you know for a long time. They know your weakness, strength and flaws better than the other person. I experience this on daily basis. It is never easy for me. Sometimes I do have a thought to flirt back/cheat (your girlfriend probably feels the same way) but I know I will regret it afterwards where I need to confess to my boyfriend. I don’t want to go through all this guilt, trust issue shit so I better avoid.

Ericastevens · Answer

She probably values an emotional bond with you over sex. Emotional bonds take time and work, she wouldn’t throw it all away for temporary sexual gratification- she can get that from you as well. Also if people approach her without even knowing her it is a turnoff because obviously they only like her looks since they know nothing else about her. Also if she has any amount of self esteem, she would not cheat because she respects herself too much to be that kind of person, no matter if you fall out of love or not, or if she is no longer attracted to you…if she respects herself she wouldn’t stoop so low because she holds herself to a high standard of morals.

Anonymous · Answer

Well she has to be happy in the relationship. If she feels satisfied mostly like she will be able to resist temptation. We also have to look at the fact she is just your girlfriend and that title doesn't really keep a woman at bay as much as a wife does. The next man can want to make her happier, take great care of her and make her into his wife because he is THAT interested. So keep her happy, satisfied and if she wants you to make her into a wife.

Have the most important qualities she wants in a man.

Anonymous · Answer

She can't and girlfriend are just a myth. I've been hit on by both married women, and women that had long term boyfriend. And the last time I called a girl out for doing so, she saw nothing wrong with it, and challenged me for calling her out as if I was wrong to do so!

What you will discover is she will be faithful for as long as what ever you provide suits her. Any man that comes along that provides something you do not, whether that be looks, charm, money, excitement, attention or attraction, she will go with him. It is simply their nature also known as hypergamy.

Loveydove · Answer

There will always be someone more beautiful or handsome, smarter, more successful than your current parent. Relationships are about choosing that person over and over again every day.

Why would you trade someone you love for someone who’s beautiful / handsome you don’t know how they would treat you?

It’s not hard to do it’s called being loyal

Seinna · Answer

Whether people cheat or not depends on them, not on the opportunities they get.

Your own lack of confidence in whether you'd be able to resist it shows that you're projecting that insecurity on her. She's with you, keep her happy and she'll stay.

TheorionMage · Answer

The greatest sign of 'maturity' is to know when to say 'when'
and get OFF the dating merry-go-round and make a commitment
to genuine 'partnership'.
NEITHER of you are getting any younger
and speaking from experience, there's FAR less life stress
when you've someone who's got your back
whom welcomes your 'spooning' ~ ; )

Berethor · Answer

By not being a slut, girls tend to be approached more than guys, nothing new.

sensible27 · Answer

It's odd that you don't understand this maybe, if you had the option that you found suitable and never got caught would you cheat? .. if so maybe you feel trapped and don't really like her so much, even if that's the case.. don't cheat maybe just consider breaking up.

Anonymous · Answer

oh.. well hopefully because she is with you for other things than good looks and first impressions.. if she is loving who you are as a person another guy cannot just come in and take over those feelings, it takes time and effort to build a true connection. You really feel like another woman can just come and make you want her over your girlfriend?

Daniela1982 · Answer

If it isn't in your heart to be faithful to the one you love throughout any temptations, then you will fail. It is as simple as that. What is more important, your love for someone or sex? Sadly most will choose sex.

Dinklex3 · Answer

What do you mean?
She chose you for a reason.
Just because others like her, doesn't mean she has to like them back.
I'd hate to be with a guy whose reasoning for being faithful was that no one else was giving him attention.

Anonymous · Answer

When they've had a good upbringing it's really not that hard. I have 4 sisters and they all have married good men because my father was such a strong role model for them. They know a guy who's full of s*** when they see it.
Believe it or not the fact that we have such an epidemic of single mothers and illegitimate kids only shows how many men are shirking their responsibilities as a man. Women have a right to be angry about this.

melanieeeB · Answer

Just cause someone else wants to pursue you, doesn't mean they're a temptation lol

confused_one · Answer

If she is truly happy in the relationship and all of her needs are being met then there should be no reason not to resist any temptation. There are always gonna be situations that come along that can lead to cheating, but doesn’t mean she would if she really loves you and wants to be with you.

slatyb · Answer

Because she is happy with you. It’s easy to be faithful once you realize that there is no magic sex. We’re attracted to others, I certainly am, but I’m not going to risk my marriage.

itsjustlew · Answer

We have emotional attachments to our partners and love them, a handsome man will never be as good as a loyal loving partner

amoral181234 · Answer

that means she is trying to be loyal meaning she is not those girls who cheat on there boyfriends so you should also be faithful because if you show her that your loyal then the girl will know to stay with you.

sheikalana · Answer

I am monogamous and I only have eyes for my man and nothing compares to what we have.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

„Oh, the poor thing.“  - Anna Montaigne, The Eiger Sanction

Citizenkirk · Answer

If she is well invested in the relationship then she should be able to find the willpower to do so.

rabbitzzz · Answer

Well well well, you best stay close to her. I hope you don't have to go to different city for extended period of time.

genericname85 · Answer

It's just like men can resist another hot chick. It's a decision. Nothing more. And if course your current partner has to be worth it too.

Minahh · Answer

I'm in a relationship and nobody pursues me. Where all the hot guys are? Just kidding lol. I've never been a whore for male attention.

Iron_Man · Answer

They’re probably wild and afraid to settle down You don’t talk to other guys when you’re in a relationship

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

If you are unsure about how loyal you are to her then just break up with her. She sounds like a good girl who deserves better.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

If she loves you she will be loyal.  But you don't talk like you live her yourself so maybe just end the relationship now.

driven159 · Answer

if you are that easy to be unfaithful you should be in a relationship being faithful nothing to do how you look it's how you feel

jahaims · Answer

Others aren't tempting if you are in a healthy relationship

TexasRed95 · Answer

Just say no. It's as simple as that and controlling yourself.

joshctlee · Answer

Woman are always approached by guys rather than guys being approached by girls. It’s a rare occasion for us men

In_Trance · Answer

Because she's happy with what she has. Lack is an illusion. It only creates a scarcity mindset.

AkshiJanjua · Answer

If she goes she goes you don't have to stop her. If she a bitch then be happy you saved yourself

andylakes9 · Answer

Be faithful to her. Dont give her a reason to leave

Anonymous · Answer

This is why cheating exist and women cheat too. Lot of men raise child who's not even theirs.  You're so blue pilled my friend! Wake up!

Avicenna · Answer

It’s a matter of character

awkward_author · Answer

I assume women do it in the same way men do.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Women get slut-shamed.

Anonymous · Answer

She will not get tempted firstly

Twalli · Answer

She loves and respects you.

888theGreat · Answer

If she is a slut she will , if not she won't

malwins · Answer

u mean she gets more attention thsn u? 🤭 😂

fireforeffect · Answer

Pray and ask Jesus for Strength.

Anonymous · Answer

İ think no

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