Do you give up when you find out the person is taken? (Page 3)

[Anonymous]

yes, as you should!! Have some respect for people's relationships, and yourself!!!

[DizzyDesii]

Right

[TrillXHippy]

If a girl is married I’m not going to bother with her at all. Now if a girl has a boyfriend I will wait till she no longer has a boyfriend to talk to her

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao i hear ya

[TrillXHippy]

Really?

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i really do

[Twalli]

I had an instant wher a girl kept trying to date me despite I kept telling her I was taken. She also said it coukd be a secret relationship and my girlfriend didn't need to know

[DizzyDesii]

Yep just like i mentioned in the paragraph above. They are some no good bastards 😂

[1988fido]

yes i dont interfere. and it happened to me. so i just move on

[Sasha_Gee]

I give up. If he is taken that means that I have lost the game. 😣

[CherryK]

I don't chase but if i did, no i wouldn't go after him.

[DarkWinterNights]

Yeah I actually lose interest very quickly as well.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont blame you

[beebella]

I always back off when I find out they're unavailable.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea its for the best

[Godsvengeance]

I would definitely lessen any pursuit but if I was interested I'd still try to send her subtle signals

[DizzyDesii]

Signals are good

[Hedo-1]

Yes of course! Unless you want to be known as a homewrecker!!! That'll make someone feel really good.

[DizzyDesii]

Yep thats a horrible thing to be labelled as

[bulletbob555]

Well I mean its a different approach. It would be considered poaching to ruin. A perfectly good marriage or relationship. What if the person seemed unhappy or was in an abusive relationship

[dragoblack]

Yes. They made their choice. I'm not going to be the rude creep trying to ruin it for my own satisfaction.

[DizzyDesii]

Haha

[Alyssa_11]

Yes of course I do. I respect other people’s relationships and I expect the same back.

[Dchrls78104]

For me, "taken" means just that: Taken. It's a giant sign marked "STOP. DO NOT ENTER. CLOSED SET".

[DizzyDesii]

I agree lmao

[pretty_bad]

Hell yea cause why waste my time trying to get another woman man when I can go find my own

[DizzyDesii]

Right

[boobliker]

most of the time but if she was hunting me down i may play along a bit before saying something!!!

[DizzyDesii]

Wowz

[Northernlights25]

Uh, obviously? Anything beyond is trying to incite cheating.

[DizzyDesii]

No it would be inciting that they breakup with the other person to be with you. But a lot of people rather keep two then lose one. And thats where cheating comes in

[Northernlights25]

Yeah, and to try and incite a breakup isn't better even if, in the best of scenarios it does not lead to cheating.

[AdithyaR]

I give up even if the person is single, much less if they're in a relationship.

[cookiecrusher]

There is nothing to give up.
Wasting your time this way lowers your own value.

[DizzyDesii]

You give up having liked them before knowing they were taken NOW that you know theyre taken

[Anonymous]

Yes, it would be wrong to try and break someone up as the two are likely happy together. So it's wrong and selfish to break them up just so you can be happy. Or at least it seems that way to me.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea but the person is usually flirting in return which is why you wouldn't know theyre taken unless you asked around or did social media research

[Opinion Owner]

That makes sense tbh I wouldn't know I don't actually know how to tell if someone Is flirting or how to flirt.