Ladies, what besides bad personality or poor hygiene, would make a man "undateable" in your eyes? (Page 2)
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I am unattracted to guys with addiction issues whether that be drugs, alcohol, weed, etc. Also, guys with no motivation and just lazy are not for me.
Addiction boys are a bitch.
1) yes man 2) player 3) moralist 4) miser 5) overprotective d0uchebag 6) rich bastar9 7) Baljeet type 8) Ross Geller 9) Sheldon Cooper 9) narcissist
These are for me. I'm almost definite many wouldn't date these types. The ones who do, kudos.
If I can’t have a decent conversation with them and keep my attention, it is out the door. Mommy issues is another. Baby mama drama is another I can’t stand.
What are “mommy issues?”
@Agagagagaga like daddy issues but worse
I don’t know what “daddy issues” are either. Do you mean being like a momma’s boy or something?
@Agagagagaga then consider yourself lucky
being promiscuited and not loyal, not being honest - so basically no trust... and many more but thats just me :)
Ignorance is probably the biggest deal breaker.. next to guys who think they are gods gift to women lol..
Low intelligence, and a narrow mind. These are not personality traits, they are a person's potential for growth and development.
What's meant by low intelligence in your opinion
Low capacity to learn and understand information.
And how do you assess one’s “capacity to learn and understand information” before dating them?
Initial conversations are usually a tell.
Wth you talking about the meaning of life? It takes time to understand a persons capacity for growth. Not only does intellect play a role but also knowledge (not the same), which can be gained, and even a persons drive, personality, and interest.
Damn, somebody's offended.
@VanillaSalt tell me, how do you gain knowledge without the capacity to learn and understand?
Hum… seems you aren’t quite understanding me… Have you ever done a puzzle or watched a murder mystery before? You get small pieces of a large puzzle but none of it makes sense… then at some point one small piece suddenly brings it all together. It’s like the difference between being told not to do something and being told why you shouldn’t do it… A single piece of informant can make even the most difficult to understand system look like the windows task bar. It can turn a complicated piano melody into 3 repeating patterns. They say hire a lazy person for a hard task because they will always find the easiest way to complete it.
I don’t disagree with your point I just think a single interaction is far too early to know someone’s limits.
@VanillaSalt I didn't say it would only be a single interaction, just that initial interaction through multiple conversations gives an understanding of that person, like how they communicate and choose their focus in conversation.
“Initial conversations are usually a tell.”
Exactly that.
Again no. I have focus issues myself but I bet I can give you a deeper understanding of what it is to be a man then you can me. My thoughts are all over the place. I have conversations frequently that lead me to cutting off my own points and then finishing a conversations days later lol. This don’t take away the ingenuity of what I know or share.
I believe you need to consider everything someone said to be able to even somewhat understand a persons intelligence… besides this some of the dumbest people to live have made mathematical geniuses.
Either your faulty in how you identify intelligence or your idea of intelligence is different from my own.
@VanillaSalt she’s right, it’s pretty simple to figure out if someone is a dumb ass during the first conversation.
I agree. Send a dm!
"We are living in the damn Age of sexual and financial liberty, where women who are financially independent, educated and sexually liberated are a common thing in Western society. Women have never been more liberated and more available to men than they are right now."
Um, that's the POINT. We don't WANT those types.
If you want someone who is totally dependent on you, and sexually repressed, you are describing a pet or a child not a relationship.
@Jamie05rhs You*
speak for yourself only
@NathanDavis I said "we" because I was voluntarily including myself in the group that was having a tough time finding a woman. I didn't know that you personally were having any troubles.
@Subarugirl No, ma'am. I do not want a pet. Not at all. I'm not into that. That isn't one of my kinks.
I was talking about an actual animal not a caretaker fetish
@Subarugirl I do apologize though, because I should have clarified. I was only referring to the sexual part, not the other parts in the description that you wrote.
@Subarugirl An actual animal? Lol. Wow. Well, I'm not into bestiality, either. So that would be a hard No for that one as well.
@Jamie05rhs I never included myself in any group
I only pointed out that you should say you, instead of we... you should not speak for others either, even if they're in the same situation you are, it could be for very different reasons, personal reasons or not
@NathanDavis That's a fair point; you are technically correct.
@VanillaSalt Thanks!
A guy with no job, no car, no place to live and wants everyone else to take care of him. No substance.
Misogyny, joking about sexual ass**lt/abuse, and bad uncontrollable temper
Conflicting political views because that means we haven’t got the same morals. Or them men who think they know everything and try and make you feel stupid. Just shut up shrimp dick
Aside from those, I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to.
I think that goes for most people though.
We're in the age of disconnected, entitled, trashy bitches, women without all of those traits are 1 in a billion but I'm thankful I found one and she's my girlfriend
That was Gen X to be fair.
Me too. She's in China though 😢.
Who they vote for. I have some politicians I can't stand and some political parties that make me doubt their beliefs.
Over laziness. As in someone who spends all day doing nothing.
Whininess.
No sense of humor, unfriendly, racist, ghosting people, act immature, doesn't reply/ text quickly, having pixie cut, too many tattoos etc.
Talking behind anyone's back ( and he has to warn me if I am doing it.)
Addiction is an absolute no, guys who are unkind, guys that I don’t enjoy talking to, guys that don’t take responsibility for their actions and have no job.
If he slept with another man's wife. If he couldn't get over his ex. Basically, if he was a broken human with nothing to offer.
Also, prioritizing friends over your girl is a big red flag, not to mention ew.
So a guy should prioritize a girl he met last week over lifelong friends?
@zagor no, a man should prioritize his wife above all others. If he is going to prioritize his buddy over his spouse then he should be married
OK, but I think this post deals with the very pre-wife/husband phase.
well as a bisexual guy. I Dont like when he is girly and stuff. I like big rough manly men. So a girly guy is "undatable" to me
Literally nobody wants them.
@Gidge I want them
@Gidge actually plenty if women do, so you can speak for yourself on that matter.
No sense of responsibility, not positively ambitious, and dusty qualities.
I´m genuily curious what kind of comments you´ll get.