Would you date someone that has kids with an ex? (Page 2)

[Levin]

Likely not.

Especially since women usually date dickheads or thugs who then cause drama going forward.

[pixie215]

as long as they are no longer sexually active together like no random hookups then yeah it would be fine

[Gigi2019]

I'm not looking, but, if I were, I would not be interested in dealing with anyone other than my partner.

[UniquelyBasic]

Personally I dont want kids so I wouldn't at this point in my life. I dont want to waste their time or get involved with their kids and potentially have them experience yet another departure.

[Mofunfour20]

Hell NO. Men that take single moms are weak simps. Lions don't even take single moms with cubs, they kill the cubs 100% of the time.

[jasco]

At one point, I would have but honestly I don't think I would. I can already see some single mothers being an ass to their replacement fathers just because its not their kid. I don't wanna deal with that nor the stress that comes with it

[girlwithglasses01]

now, it totally depends on why the relationship didn't work. if it is for some silly reason that the kid would have to suffer for, too careless for my liking. But if it is some genuine reason, i adore kids

[Dargil]

I would consider it, but I would want to know what the ex's relationship with the kids is. I do not want him in my life in any way.

[Jamie05rhs]

But that's fucked up, though, because the children should have a relationship with their father.

[Dargil]

@Jamie05rhs Fair enough. But I said "my life", not the kids. Her choices are her own. I do not want the ex to insert himself in my life. I have lived this. Better the pull the plug and look elsewhere.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. I understand.

[Avicenna]

Nope. There is no benefit to getting involved in that circus. Have your own kids, ones you have a real bond with.

[Iron_Man]

I could date the woman but I’m not gonna be the father that’s not my responsibility thats the father‘s responsibility

[worldscolide]

Depends on the situation. If she alienates the father, doesn't let him have access, treats him badly, Absolutely not.

[Berethor]

I rather not, a girl like that bring too much baggage with her.

[commonerscoffee]

Well I wouldn't want to date someone if they had kids with a partner they were currently with.

[20yearsolder]

I have and I married her and we've been together for 35 years

[JamesRandiDebates]

I would bone the bitch, but not actually date. And I never want to meet her crotch goblins.

[DermalPunch]

Yes, but not without looking deeply into the details of their specific situation.

[HighValue]

No. Having kids from a past relationship is an automatic DQ for me.

[Reijen]

Nah.
Tried it with one woman, but she was always busy with her kid.
Not a bad thing mind you, children should get priority. Just not conducive to developing a relationship.

[megabamse]

It depends on how many kids. 1 is fine, 2 is pushing it

[TacosRAwesome]

Unsure. I don't think I'm in the headspace to be a mum yet.