My boyfriend cried when he stopped the relationship with me and I want to know why and I have explained the whole situation below?

[Anonymous]

We dated for 3.5 months and we were really happy but we had few disagreements as every relationship. He thought it was his fault and said he does not want to make me sad. Previously he told me he is not a relationship guy and he hasn’t dated for 5 years. He cared for me a lot and he was a genuine guy. He said he is breaking up because he doesn’t want me to suffer with him because he’s still in college, 25, he’s broke, some family issues (said will move out from family when he finds a job), he’s scared about the future and not confident enough, his busy with college stuff and his sports team and having me is a responsibility for him and he feels bad and he wants to be committed to it and right now he can’t give that commitment. The day I met, I told him keep me out of the equation and I will support you in everything. He knows that. So the last time we met I said the same. He told me it so harder than I thought and he cried and this is the second time he has teared in his life (before when he broke his hand). He knows I will be there with him but he doesn’t want me to stay because he thinks I’ll suffer and he doesn’t want me to be a part of it. He cried so much and I felt so bad and I even cried too. He said I am too nice and I’m a little Angel and he always tells me I’m the kind, good and best girl he has ever seen. He told me he will never come back and I asked why he said I feel like you’ll wait for me. Then I said no. But deep down I want us to be together. Do you think it’ll happen? I also haven’t talked him since the last day we met and he didn’t too. Do you think he will reach out? Pls help me understand and thank you.

[Carolus]

Stay away and move on, you aren’t the one, it’s your goodness that have caught him in between, he feels or wants to avoid the guilt of hurting you in the long run, it happens to most men, who let good women go because of their selflessness and goodness, a man can meet a genuine woman who is crazily in love and pure but doesn’t feel the same or mostly was after short time fling or getting laid and let’s her go. If he was in love with you, he would fight thick and thin to be with you despite the circumstances. Being broke or busy is temporal as long as you working hard towards some improvements or better management.

[Thomas152]

Sorry to break it like this, but he is just not into you. I've said/done very similar things to a girl (I need to focus on work, I'm not ready for a relationship, I don't want to disappoint her, make her wait for me). She responded in the same way you did. I also shed some tears when I told her these. This was after 2 months of dating. In reality, I was just trying to ditch her, without explicitly saying it. Remember, if he wanted to, he would

[xJayleenx]

This man really loves you 🥺 you could tell that he really cares about you if I were you I would stay with him and try to be there for him. A guy crying in front of you is a big deal me and my boyfriend have known each other for two years but he still hasn’t cried in front of me only teared up. This guy wear his heart on his sleeve he’s a good guy.

[boggboss]

No it won't happens he dont see himself as worthy to be with u and thinks he will fuck up the relationship and damage u so he is self sabotaging

[Gwenhwyfar]

He needs to prioritize you over sports

[Iron_Man]

Follow your heart do whats Best