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Do guys not want to date girls who were in a physically abusive relationship? (Page 2)
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Not really, we dont want to fix and pay for trauma caused by someone else because physical injuries heal but psychological ones dont. The moment your partner is physically abusive, either man or woman, you should leave immediately, that will lead to no phycological issues.
I dont share that ….. I was in one but I definitely don’t tell men I’m dating that because I’ve moved on and know what I deserve. Plus it’s none of their business. Only thing I do share eventually is that I was sexually assaulted because some things bother me.
Sorry that happened to you. I wouldn't mind at all, I would just hope she would communicate and let me know what she needs from me. I wouldn't want to accidentally do anything that would make her uncomfortable. The fact that she was mentally strong enough to not hate men after that is admirable.
I'm not into long term relationships, but if I find you attractive enough to date which most probably I do, I'd like to just temporarily date you and take care of you and reassure you untill you regain the confidence in yourself.
It's not your fault you were abused and it shouldn't make a difference in your future relationships.
Thank you 💞💞
You're welcome and good luck :)
I don't know. It would have just depended on what baggage and problems she'd be bringing into our relationship and what acts had actually occurred between her and him.
It would have been a case by case situation.
No, You are still good dating and relationship material, just tell the guy early if you trust him and if he cares then he will make sure you aren't in a similar situation.
I feel really bad about women who are abused at the hands of a s\o. But as i also know , a lot of females provoke they're aggressors to kingdom come. Not condoning either one of those. So i guess it just really depends exactly what really happened to began with both involved and to hear both sides of the story first before i would answer this question.
I’d date ya, but in the back of my mind I’d be worried that you’ll put your ex’s traits on to me and I’m not at all violent so if you did do that I’d take it badly
I'd be careful about dating such a damaged woman. I wouldn't want to take the chance that she might damage me too. You might say you are cured, but the real test is if there's a situation in which you get mad.
In which I get mad? What does that have to do it?
My ex was the one who was always angry and I actually am very calm most of the time. When I am angry I just take a step back and get my thoughts together. I don't know what me being angry as to do with this though.
Also I do not consider myself damaged at all.
Probably not. Most women who get into/stay in abusive relationships do so because they're psychologically broken people to begin with. Why would I want to be with someone who is attracted to toxicity? It's not a guys job to fix these women. And they really aren't worth the effort.
Generally, women who were in abusive relationships always go for them leaving the good guys behind. I am sure you may be are not like that but most of the girls I know that complain about past abusive guys always date those types of guys only. They love to get sympathy than being in healthy places. It is Stockholm syndrome that most good men don't wanna deal with.
I’ve never heard this as a problem. Unless her ptsd is so bad it’s destructive or she refuses to get help.
I think a lot of us are concerned about the psychological damage from such trauma. e. g., Borderline Personality Disorder.
In the age of Over Sharing people do Not need to share everything and a physically abusive relationship is one of those things. We All have had past relationships. If what happened in them does Not affect the new person it is Not their Business!
Shouldn't matter, not your fault and any guy that things that is a issue, is a loser.
My ex girlfriend was in an abusive relationship and dumped me. By the sound of things, she couldn't handle a safe, stable relationship. I agree with the responder, that such women are damaged and that the only relationships they can handle are bad ones.
So you’re basing all girls after one girl you had a relationship with who dumped you for reasons probably other than her past
No. Not basing all girls, due to that. Still, I'm being cautious when dating.
No, a past history of abuse would not stop me from dating someone, It would however make me more mindful of my own behaviors.
My mom was in abusive relationships and lost her parents at a fairly young age. She has been on anti depressants ever since. My dad fell in love with her though and have been married 35+
I think more women don’t want to date men who were abused as children than men not wanting to date women who suffered with an abusive boyfriend or partner.