single mom, shitty personality, mind games, entitled, drinks too much, smokes cigarettes (weed is chill), manipulative, tries to make “rules” about dating/sleeping with her.
@The_Shadow_Dweller They start by taking small things away. Trying to order things for you at restaurants or getting drinks. They pretend it’s “remembering what you like” but it’s really removing options and flexing muscle (in a controller, not a gentleman, a good man will still ask if that is what is wanted) Then they start asking where you are all the time. Trying to claim ownership. Even if you stand up to use the restroom. “How long are you going to be?” etc. Those are early flags.
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More like deal breakers for me:
Wanting sex on the first date if we're basically strangers.
Mental illness.
Always on the phone
Entitlement
Lazy
I have a mental illness and its annoying as fuck you label us as psychos. We're pretty normal and chill
Respect the boundaries and standards. A misandrist like yourself should understand as much
You're just fucking ignorant
That's why you're single
Girls who would spend more time on their phones, rather than talking to me.
Scares?
Well, never dated in my life and never wish to do that also so I won't say I am scared because I never tried it.
Is sbe cool?
Can she hand! e me showing up after 3 jugs of rum and. chocolate milk?
an I eat ber out
When the woman doesn't show interest in getting to know me. Feels so one sided. I hate that.
My trust issues and cynicism are enough to scare me.
Erratic behavior. Especially when stories don't jive.
Spoken from experience!
Insecurity, history of bad decisions, bad family relations, std's, bad grooming, no eye contact, rigid if touched, deception, games.
If she's willing to jump in bed on the first date... or the next few. Also if she's had lots of sex partners and I find out about it.
If I find out she’s a cannibal I loose interest pretty quick.
Always one thing... Someone is taking it more seriously than the other...
The fact that I'm old (er) and that women are going to want to start having kids, and getting married at our age
When she's says she's a liberal, feminist, or lgbtq ally
Racist girl, closer minded, refusing to give blowjobs, cheating, talking with her ex still.
Wanting to automatically jump to sex and intimacy.
single mom, shitty personality, mind games, entitled, drinks too much, smokes cigarettes (weed is chill), manipulative, tries to make “rules” about dating/sleeping with her.
The games people play.
You still haven't emailed me back
I was supposed to email you for something?
Greedy women.
Women who were with multiple men
Huh?
Signs of controlling nature. I’m out.
How do you notice such traits? What are the most noticeable traits.
@The_Shadow_Dweller They start by taking small things away. Trying to order things for you at restaurants or getting drinks. They pretend it’s “remembering what you like” but it’s really removing options and flexing muscle (in a controller, not a gentleman, a good man will still ask if that is what is wanted)
Then they start asking where you are all the time. Trying to claim ownership. Even if you stand up to use the restroom. “How long are you going to be?” etc.
Those are early flags.
A girl that uses the words Toxic Masculinity or any other feminist behavior.