How will I ever get a boyfriend?

[Mistymittens324]

I'm really scared I'm never going to find anyone... I'm already 28, I've only ever had 1 boyfriend who broke up with me after cheating on me... I can't land dates because it always seems like once plans are made they block me or find someone better then me and I always get ghosted... I even flew to another country to meet a guy I was really into and he used to be attracted to me I thought and he didn't even touch me after renting us a 1 bedroom hotel room... i thought that meant he'd want me but instead he watched porn and jerked off in the shower instead of playing with me...

how does a girl like me even find a guy... I don't think I'll ever he good enough.

[MCheetah]

Stop being so demanding and entitled and going after 9s and 10s! There are plenty of good single men out there! You just don't find them perfect enough for you!

You're 28; you've got another six or so years before it's over for you. Stop going after tens and perfect looking men, and start going after men who are decent on the inside. Because men in general are sick of getting sh*t on and then expecting the same shallow women who do it to be sympathetic to them as they reach or surpass their thirties!

STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR YOUR BEHAVIOR AND BAD CHOICES IN MEN, THEN EXPECTING PEOPLE TO FEEL SORRY FOR YOU!

F*ck!

[lightbulb27]

there's nothing wrong with being single at your age, I know gals single much longer that find someone and get married later, it's just not easy sometimes, takes growth, good fortune.

but lowering yourself for this other guy makes me wonder. you sound desperate and that's bad. time to repair your self esteem/worth, really make yourself your best and do your best, learn what you can and work hard to get the life you want. that's all anyone can do.

[sheikalana]

Don't be so much in your head. Let things flow naturally and be patient.

[laurieluvsit]

Here is how...

How to find the man of your dreams

[Zweihander9005]

Lol watching porn and jerking off in a hotel bathroom, that’s pretty funny lol.

But seriously Misty, don’t stress about it too much. If you have to be single for a bit to practice some self love and work on yourself then so be it. Don’t base your whole identity on who you’re with, be your own confident self.

[Anonymous]

Looking at your previous posts I see a theme of casual sex and risky behavior. The more casual sex you have, the less serious a guy will take you. This is why I don't bother with relationships or seeking a girlfriend period and many other guys stopped doing so too.

You are asking for a man to commit when other men have been intimate without commitment...

[GingerGuy]

Welcome to the club lol. My advice is not to focus on it. If you're happy in and with your life otherwise and in general, then you don't need someone to be happy. If or when you do find them, then they will only add to it, not be the source of it.

[Avicenna]

Stay away from the dating apps and meet guys IRL. I also think you need to see a therapist. Psychological issues often manifest themselves in one’s dating life.

[TheLoneTerran]

Pfft, I've been best man three times and I'm 34. You've got time. The important part is to not give in to hopelessness.

[ArtemisSilver]

That sucks, is there any recurring theme? Is it a looks issue, it's hard to tell without knowing more about you.

[Mistymittens324]

last guy said he wanted me and he came to visit... I gave him a bj once and he never did anything to me... this guy was just talking to other girls and on tinder.. I felt so hurt

[ArtemisSilver]

Well it sounds like he was just a messed up weirdo.

[DavidRaul]

Just be patient and wait for a good guy, Don't fall for these douchebags. You seem nice. You will surely get a good guy

[UniquelyBasic]

If there's a trend it has to be something about you that attracts these type of men.

[Waldoe]

change where you normally "hang out" find a new dating pool... Church's have singles groups, the same as bars do... expand your social "Pool"

[Anonymous]

Sounds desperate. Independent women did this to themselves.

[DWornock]

Find some homeless guy that you can support or else give up.

[lofii]

I'll be your boyfriend