My wife has social anxiety amd before we met she never went to resteraunts. she also can never remember what she's tried amd liked. i order for her mostly.
There is nothing wrong with that because some guy's like to show kindness, and that's OK. And if the girl wanted to order for herself she should speech up.
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I probably wouldn't give it much thought. I'd figure she was shy, or didn't know the language well, or had a very quiet voice in a loud place.
I'd think he knows food and what she likes. My SO sometimes orders for me at a restaurant, especially when we're sharing an appetizer.
Honestly, if it’s a really formal restaurant, my husband orders for me. Obviously, he doesn’t decide what I get to eat, but that’s how we do it.
None of your god damn business wth… stay out of it!
Not my business and therefore I don't really care... Why does it matter?
My wife has social anxiety amd before we met she never went to resteraunts. she also can never remember what she's tried amd liked. i order for her mostly.
I would feel like that's none of my business and keep my nose where it belongs
I wouldn't care. If that's what he wants to do. Maybe she told him what she wanted and he just confirmed her order for her.
Nothing wrong with that, as long as he's ordering what she told him she wants. I usually just let everyone order before me, though.
There is nothing wrong with that because some guy's like to show kindness, and that's OK. And if the girl wanted to order for herself she should speech up.
If he was ordering her a kids meal I would be a little concerned.
As long as he doesn't order her the plain salad and himself the steak I don't really care.
I could care less most of the time the man already knows what she wants before anyway he just putting the orders together
Some women like that and some get tongue tied when ordering things so no big deal more important thing to be concerned with
Assume she’s already told him what she wants, and that’s what he chose.
OK, if they talked about it and that's what she wants. Not everyone is bold in public.
None of my business, my BFF orders for me when we eat out,
I mean if he's paying , why not. But if isn't, very weird , and sounds controlling.
Women " awww she's getting free food wish I was her"...
I'd feel as people should be able to make their own decisions