I'm tired of having no options.
All of my life, the ONLY time I have ever been able to get dates and garner interest has been once I've reached about 15% or less bodyfat, and looked like a fitness model. All of the traits like compassion, mystery, playfulness and sense of humor are not doing anything for me. They just simly ghost me. Is it a good idea to just get off the apps until I drop weight (my pic doesn't show the gut)?