Agree, except change that to all people. Men play games too. People need to just be honest. Ask them flat out: how do you see this? Is it casual or are you looking for a mate? Then both people can consent. It's not wrong to only want casual or only want to date to mate. Both people deserve to know the others intentions.
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Find out what his intentions are and save yourself a lot of time and trouble if you aren’t a match in that regard.
If he values you enough, waiting for eternity will be no big deal to him.
But please don't make him wait that long. Lol!
At your age you should stop playing games and go on the date as soon as possible.
Until he goes MGTOW… With your Method, enjoy your Single life 🥳🥳🥳
Wouldn't it make more sense to go out with him on a more friendly level so as you get to know him and then when you're ready tell him it's a date?
You can tell him that you wait until marriage, and not only with sex but also with kissing.
Nothing forces you to do anything, if you don't want to kiss or have sex, don't.
But if you date to marry, tell him first, so he knows what to expect.
Don’t play games. Just tell him you’re only interested in marriage.
This is an excellent question for men to read to get insight into the games women play.
Agree, except change that to all people. Men play games too. People need to just be honest. Ask them flat out: how do you see this? Is it casual or are you looking for a mate? Then both people can consent. It's not wrong to only want casual or only want to date to mate. Both people deserve to know the others intentions.
@CallMeLes Unfortunately women and men are not the same so the worse thing you can do is be direct w/ a women they are not equipped to handle that.
Steve Harvey uses the 90 day rule. I'd say he's serious if he's still hanging out after that long
Why not just tell him you only date to marry instead of hoping these vague actions will somehow tell him that.
thats not ok
to date thinking you're going to marry. you shouldn't "have a plan like that".
It'll blow up in your face, I guarantee it
at least 8 years because by then you will be close to infertile amd we dont need your kind of retarded in the gene pool
I can't tell you cause I wouldn't date anyone like this
Doesn't matter, guys will want sex, no matter how long you wait. Saying "no" in the moment is the only real solution.
I think its dumb and a recipe to be forever single.
You're not going to get to know him if you don't spend time with him.
Going on a date is just to get to know the person. You should wait a few years to date someone
If he asks you on a date... and you are interested in him, just go, drive yourself, you set the place and time so you're comfortable.
dating is fake
so I do not waste my time
better off just buying a girl
and reminding her what she is good for