Can I have some advice please?

[Anonymous]

I have been dating this girl for about 3 months, and even though we aren't "official" just yet, we are already talking about how we are in a relationship. Well, I was going to her hometown to meet her parents and friends
this weekend for her birthday, but she ended up getting Covid and I can't go now. I was thinking about having flowers sent to her house on her birthday as a surprise since I can't be there, but she has never told me her
parents address? Would it be creepy to reach out to her best friend (who I was supposed to meet this weekend and who knows all about me) to see if she could give me her address so I could send surprise birthday flowers to cheer up her day? Or would this just be plain
creepy? Because I don't want that. Thank you for your advice and I would love to hear what you think.

[RedStealthOperative]

Probably safest not to go through with it and just wait things out, I think. But as someone else stated, you're the best judge on whether or not she would be into that sort of thing. I wouldn't do it if I were you, though. This does have potential to ruin something that is already going in a good direction if she ends up thinking you're a creep.

[angrymexican563]

You're the best judge because you are the one who is the most familiar with your relationship. Does she like that kind of thing? Also, ask yourself how close the two of you are and if either one of you have done something similar for the other person in the past. If it's not too far of a leap from where you already are, then go for it.

[Selene1600000]

It could come off a bit intrusive since she never gave you her address, even if your intention is sweet. A safer move is to ask her directly or send something digital message, video, food delivery that still shows effort. If you really want it to be a surprise, keep it simple and respectful don’t go around her for personal info this early.

[Anonymous]

Don't do it. I have no idea where guys get these attraction killing, simping ideas from but it needs to stop.

[In_Trance]

This makes no sense. You're talking about being in a relationship and you don't know where she lives? WTF