You dont need any Advice.
You handled it perfectly I would have done the exact same thing
It just goes to show you something so silly something so stupid a guy would have to lie about it there's no reason to lie you're going to lunch I don't think it really matter where you're going but as soon as you catch him in one night then you're going to catch him in two and three and four
I know it's probably hard on you because you're making it hard on you you're the only one that can make it easy on yourself by saying you did the right thing and I think you did do the right thing you don't want some guy that's going to lie to you and then disappear for 4 days and then come back as if nothing even happened.
Easier said than done but you have to let it go let him go work on yourself and everything else will work out it will all fall in place don't be negative like I said Let It Go Don't let it even enter into your mind anymore you got this you can handle it
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It really doesn't matter. He's made his choice. You can't make someone want to be with you. Did you drive him away, or did he leave you? Only you can answer that. This is why you can't REACT to the way people choose to be. You need to know what you're willing to accept and not willing to accept from people. And reward good behavior, and accept shortcomings within that. And when someone crosses a deal-breaker you need to know when to walk away. Even if you love them! Because people who love you don't intentionally do that. That is a toxic relationship.
I don't know you but based on what you posted you come off as emotional, unfocused, and lacking clear boundaries. Like it or not however much you may love someone, they're there own separate person. You HAVE to accept that.
Good luck!
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Sounds to me like you need to find another man, who gives a shit what you call it. Rebound or monkey branch whatever the hell that is. He's done with you and you should be done with him
Well you are way past no return. Maybe you could have dealt with it in a way where you won. But you didn't and now have to continue a life without having anything to do with them.
Why are u still chasing after a guy that clearly don't like u
Call it whatever you need to, it doesn't matter really.
That’s quite the predicament, I don't know what to say about that
Iif he's still with her, than its not a rebound.
Mommie Dearest…
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