There's a guy i met on a dating app late last year (we're both early 20s) and we were talking for a bit, nothing came from it. A month ago i bumped into him on a night out and we started talking again. It's been about a month of texting most days, he replies every few hours which i don't mind but he's quite blunt and says he's not much of a texter. We met up properly again for the first time last night and i went to his for a gaming night. I noticed that he kept checking his phone a lot and i felt like i didn't really have his attention, which i found weird considering he takes long to reply to me when we're apart.
A bit later into the night he tries in initiate sex with me to which i tell him my boundaries and how i would like to get to know him more first; his response was that's fine and that we can just chill. A bit of time goes by and he tries to initiate sex again, i dont give it to him. I quite like this guy, but i feel like im wasting my time and he isn't actually interested in me for me. What do you guys think?
A bit later into the night he tries in initiate sex with me to which i tell him my boundaries and how i would like to get to know him more first; his response was that's fine and that we can just chill. A bit of time goes by and he tries to initiate sex again, i dont give it to him. I quite like this guy, but i feel like im wasting my time and he isn't actually interested in me for me. What do you guys think?
