Hi everyone. Recently my boyfriend and I moved in together to a new city. We hadn’t been dating very long before making this change (9 months), but we decided that we both saw this going long term and he had asked me to make this move with him. He was transferred for work, and I ended up getting a new job in the new city. Neither of us have friends here, and we just recently got a puppy who we love so much. I love him, but I think the consistency of us ONLY spending time with eachother, both starting new jobs and training a new puppy is taking a toll on my mental health. I constantly think something is wrong with him, because I’m not used to this “settled down” life that isn’t always romance and fun dates, and that we are just becoming a boring couple who follows the same routine. I’m going crazy thinking he’s already bored of me or regrets choosing to live together. We have had small arguments, or bickering but have never gotten into an actual fight. Any advice for someone going through so many new transitions so quickly?
Moved in, and things got boring?
