He has a relationship with a girl over 3 years now and my female coworker told me she knows his girlfriend and that he isn't allowing her to talk to other guys or men and tells her to go to home early lol... Is this even toxic? I think it kinda is as well. I mean he is a hottie but his personality stinks if what she said is true..
He may seem insecure and immature by some by doing this, but it seems he is simply trying to protect his relationship. I’m assuming they are not yet married? That would be fairly normal behaviour by my books.
Anyways it’s her choice to stay with this guy, it’s not like as if she is complaining about it. Only if she is complaining then you could call it toxic. To be frank it’s totally their own private business, not anyone else’s.
Yap she may be in a abusive relationship, does he not talk to other girls? Hell nah so that's it. Anyone can talk to anyone but there should be some boundaries between them.
Well I mean if he is considered toxic I would def try to figure out why? I mean she wouldn't just be saying that I bet! (( I made a post on Facebook not to long ago about that fuckin type of personality let me get a screen shot and I'll show it to you ))
If you wouldn't talk about it in front of him then it's not something for you to talk about away from him either.
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He probably has a huge cock and your girlfriend will put up with anything to ride him. She love cock just like any other girl. Men are the same with pussy. I have put up with some shit from nasty bitches because fucking them was out of this world amazing.
Doesn't want her talking to other guys? So basically he doesn't want her trying to flirt with or get interest from other guys because he values the relationship and doesn't want a cheater?
He seems normal. The other woman that claims he is "toxic" is likely a promiscuous woman based on her not liking his behavior.
Firstly this is second hand information and has fuck all to do with work - so take it with a grain of salt from a coworker. She could just be trying to get you on her side.
Secondly, if his attitude to you is different to his attitude to her, then you know there is a lot more to things than she's letting on.
Why would you want your partner talking to other men? What good would come of that? As far as going home early, it's not safe to walk around alone at night for anyone let alone a single female by herself. It's a jungle out there.
You have no idea the kinds of messed up shit that goes on, people disappear.
I think you two should stay out of their business and maybe try to resist the programming you've received.
This right here " ... he isn't allowing her to...(whatever) ..." is a choice that she makes every day and is willing to live with and accept. That's on her. Any self-respecting woman who was told that and didn't reply with "don't bump your dumb fucked-up ass on the door on your way out" deserves what she gets. She's choosing to be Mr. Toxic.
Yes, that's controlling unless she likes to play daddy / little girl with him. I knew one couple like that, and I assumed it was their thing as the woman seemed to be perfectly happy in the relationship.
How do you know this girl is telling the truth? I'm not saying she not but how do you know she's no just gossiping? I had a friend she went through a relationship like that but it wasn't toxic cause she liked it maybe that's what works for them you never know
Well maybe she has been kinda flirty in the past. Certainly seems like he has low trust in her. Maybe he is a very suspicious controlling guy maybe not.
u that's the definition of toxic, yes... controlling and insecure AF
Who cares what your coworkers think? they should mind their own business
would like your relationship to be talked about at work by co workers? I don't think so
You find out for yourself. Considering that your female coworker may turn out to be the toxic one spreading false information like that.
he sounds very controlling and his girlfriend lets it happen
Hopefully that's not the same guy that you had a crush on.
Sounds more like a control freak that might get even worse
he is possessive and it is possible that she enjoys that in a man
I have been in that situation before... it's horrible.. very toxic
That is very toxic. Any controlling behaviour in a relationship is toxic.
Why do you even care? It is their business, not yours.
He sounds toxic
That is extremely toxic!
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