How is my boyfriend afraid to lose me when he can go days without talking to me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is afraid to lose me when he can go several days without talking to me and has been talking to another girl behind my back. He doesn't bother to put in effort anymore and has been dry texting me.

[Anonymous]

He’s selfish, that’s all, wanting you and the other woman. I feel certain in those days he’s not talking to you it’s because he’s with her. You already know they’re texting so surely it’s not impossible for him to be juggling two relationships. You should want more for yourself than to be in a polygamous relationship you didn’t even sign up for.

[xiaolian]

There's only 2 options, or he likes u and and avoids u, so u can chase him, or he doesn't like u. The best way to test him is to show a bit of love and see if he still avoids u.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

He wants you, he just doesn't want to spend all day on his phone talking about nothing just to prove he's your boyfriend.

[Guy13]

It is not adding up to me...