How to stop feeling sorry for myself for not having a boyfriend when all my friends do?

[Anonymous]

All my friends have boyfriends who do everything for them and take them out on dates that I’ve always dreamed of. I’m going to be a freshman high school but all the guys interested in me are significantly older so I can’t date them. So unless something changes in the fall when I start high school, I’m screwed. I’ve been throwing myself an internal pity party because It feels so unfair and sad everyone else can have everything I wished for (litterally I wrote down the exact types of dates and treatment I wanted and all my friends got it instead) Please help me stop victimizing myself or give me some advice.

[Staximus]

You're not even in high school yet, relax. Having a boyfriend is something you need to be worried about later. Don't just jump on the first horny littlr bastard that makes googly eyes at you, either. Wait till you find a guy you like that is good to you and not just trying to use you, you have plenty of time.

[Anonymous]

Make a concerted effort to find a boyfriend.