It's more like don't embarrass us in public rule. If you wanna show your unstable mentally do it at home. Otherwise you make us both look like we need to be in an asylum.
No. That's unrealistic. Couples are going to argue from time to time, if he's not willing to listen and understand you're also a human being with thought and feelings and vice versa then cut them loose.
Works both ways. I don’t get it, if a woman expresses their feelings its deemed “arguing” and they get called “being a bitch” but when guys argue they’re called “smart and admirable for standing in what they believe in.” Awww so much crap.
It’s a cooperative effort. You’re both adults. Neither has authority over the other. You can disagree but one reprimanding the other is not appropriate in my eyes.
I do NOT enjoy arguing with anyone... ever... you can offer a different opinion... but don't ARGUE... Life is already a pain in the ass, don't be one too
nah argue with him if you think that's the correct course of action. just avoid having relationship arguments in public because you'll get some white knight telling your boyfriend not to talk to you like that lol
I think both partners should be allowed to disagree, but I draw the line at *arguing* for any reason. It’s pointless and only serves to further divide couples
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I have never met a man who said this. However, I definitely stick to the "Agree in public, debate in private" rule. No one likes being argued with or debated in front of a group of people. So if you disagree, do it in private.
No. It's about respect. You can respectfully disagree. We guys think you women out out of your minds at least half the time. But we just learn to smile and nod. Because you have to pick your battles.
Argue? I like a woman with an opinion of her own. It may or may not be right but she is entitled to her opinion. As long as we can agree to dis agree I am all good with it...
I don't. My partner has an equal say in anything, she can argue if she wants just as much as I can. If your man is put off by merely an argument, he's just a weak man.
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It's more like don't embarrass us in public rule. If you wanna show your unstable mentally do it at home. Otherwise you make us both look like we need to be in an asylum.
I generally agree with it, but the problem is that men have to be down with actually hearing women's suggestions.
Absolutely. Happy with suggestions but I'll dump you if you are argumentative. I will have power struggles at work and don't want them at home.
Arguing as in: raising your voice or getting 'emotional' is a thing I hate.
But when there's a disagreement on details of life, I'm always open to hear the reasons.
Women don't know how to not get emotional. Everything they believe and think comes from emotion
@ElementoP In YOUR culture, maybe?
No. That's unrealistic. Couples are going to argue from time to time, if he's not willing to listen and understand you're also a human being with thought and feelings and vice versa then cut them loose.
If you have to make this a rule, the relationship isn't going to work out anyway.
Works both ways. I don’t get it, if a woman expresses their feelings its deemed “arguing” and they get called “being a bitch” but when guys argue they’re called “smart and admirable for standing in what they believe in.” Awww so much crap.
"Wives don't nag anymore... they discuss!"
- Editor Gunnison, Rear Window
It’s a cooperative effort. You’re both adults. Neither has authority over the other. You can disagree but one reprimanding the other is not appropriate in my eyes.
I do NOT enjoy arguing with anyone... ever... you can offer a different opinion... but don't ARGUE... Life is already a pain in the ass, don't be one too
nah argue with him if you think that's the correct course of action. just avoid having relationship arguments in public because you'll get some white knight telling your boyfriend not to talk to you like that lol
If a man uses this line, I know he's a pig and he's not worth my time or respect.
I think both partners should be allowed to disagree, but I draw the line at *arguing* for any reason. It’s pointless and only serves to further divide couples
I have never met a man who said this. However, I definitely stick to the "Agree in public, debate in private" rule. No one likes being argued with or debated in front of a group of people. So if you disagree, do it in private.
That is a pretty good rule.
A lot of guys ard immature and love to isntigate arguments or debates but i told one guy i dont respect that he likes to try to argue with women.
@comeon865 I dont care if a woman argues w/me, however it's a dealbreaker if she argues w/ me in public.
No. It's about respect. You can respectfully disagree. We guys think you women out out of your minds at least half the time. But we just learn to smile and nod. Because you have to pick your battles.
Arguments happen. I think that rule is not right. There is a limit with me, I will end the conversation if I feel like it's going nowhere.
Argue? I like a woman with an opinion of her own. It may or may not be right but she is entitled to her opinion. As long as we can agree to dis agree I am all good with it...
It's generally a bad idea to argue with your partner on controversial topics.
I don't. My partner has an equal say in anything, she can argue if she wants just as much as I can. If your man is put off by merely an argument, he's just a weak man.