Have you ever stopped being attracted to someone but just couldn’t figure out why? Or do you always know why you lose attraction?

[Still-alive]

Yeah there were times where i was initially attracted but lost attraction for them and couldn’t figure out why

No i always know why i lost attraction for someone

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Im not asking if there is a reason. Obviously there is always a reason. What im truly asking here is if you always understand or know what that reason is?

[petitedollbabee]

There’s been a few relationships that have ended because I’ve lost my feelings for them. At the time I can’t figure out why, but eventually I figure it. Usually it’s because the person has done something behind my back and I get that gut feeling that something isn’t right, which in turn makes me lose feelings for that person, even if I haven’t figured out what they did wrong yet.

[melanieeeB]

Lamoo way too often, example: someone is damn cute and then he opens his mouth and starts to talk and I'm out just like that

[melanieeeB]

To the update: yes always

[Still-alive]

Im kinda curious to know what you really look for in guys. I know you mentioned you were quite picky.

[melanieeeB]

Oh I always find it really hard to explain. Sure I can tell you all the traits I wish for in someone and shared views etc but honestly in the end the one major thing is chemistry. His aura. His behavior. Respect = the perfect mixture of them all and that shit is rare. And individual too. What works for guy a (in my eyes), might look silly on guy b for me.
Like I can't come up with a list and then I do meet someone who on paper has most of the points from my list but we don't vibe. I'm not going to be with that.

[Still-alive]

sounds very complicated. i would be very curious to see what guy you end up with at some point and what really worked with you about him.

[melanieeeB]

Well I will let you know if that happens one day lol

[Still-alive]

Well if you ever move to la look me up lol. Ill try my best :p

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah there were times when I was initially attracted but lost attraction for them and couldn’t figure out why but this is not the problem for me

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[llorando]

You have to be attracted to someone to stop being attracted to them.

[Still-alive]

You saying you’ve never been attracted to anyone ever?

[llorando]

Not really.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Always known why, personality is a big reason... as the honeymoon phase wears off and they let out their real self.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Almost always a reason why. Mostly tied to behavior/personality.

[menina]

I always know the reason why I stop being attracted to someone. Usually it's because of their behavior or something they said.

[jamesgoldman]

Nah I'm not attracted to many women so there's less opportunity to lose out so far most prominent was great until she lit up a cigarette

[AsaKyo]

No, no
There's always a reason for why

[Still-alive]

But do you always know what that reason is is the thing. Of course there always is one but figuring that out can be difficult for some

[AsaKyo]

Yes, I typically do
It's something they've done action wise

[TacosRAwesome]

I think I always know why.

[moonpie89]

Yes happens to me

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I have and always know why