
Have you ever stopped being attracted to someone but just couldn’t figure out why? Or do you always know why you lose attraction?


There’s been a few relationships that have ended because I’ve lost my feelings for them. At the time I can’t figure out why, but eventually I figure it. Usually it’s because the person has done something behind my back and I get that gut feeling that something isn’t right, which in turn makes me lose feelings for that person, even if I haven’t figured out what they did wrong yet.
Lamoo way too often, example: someone is damn cute and then he opens his mouth and starts to talk and I'm out just like that
To the update: yes always
Im kinda curious to know what you really look for in guys. I know you mentioned you were quite picky.
Oh I always find it really hard to explain. Sure I can tell you all the traits I wish for in someone and shared views etc but honestly in the end the one major thing is chemistry. His aura. His behavior. Respect = the perfect mixture of them all and that shit is rare. And individual too. What works for guy a (in my eyes), might look silly on guy b for me.
Like I can't come up with a list and then I do meet someone who on paper has most of the points from my list but we don't vibe. I'm not going to be with that.
sounds very complicated. i would be very curious to see what guy you end up with at some point and what really worked with you about him.
Well I will let you know if that happens one day lol
Well if you ever move to la look me up lol. Ill try my best :p
Yeah there were times when I was initially attracted but lost attraction for them and couldn’t figure out why but this is not the problem for me
Thanks for MHO :)
You have to be attracted to someone to stop being attracted to them.
You saying you’ve never been attracted to anyone ever?
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Always known why, personality is a big reason... as the honeymoon phase wears off and they let out their real self.
Almost always a reason why. Mostly tied to behavior/personality.
I always know the reason why I stop being attracted to someone. Usually it's because of their behavior or something they said.
Nah I'm not attracted to many women so there's less opportunity to lose out so far most prominent was great until she lit up a cigarette
No, no
There's always a reason for why
But do you always know what that reason is is the thing. Of course there always is one but figuring that out can be difficult for some
I think I always know why.
Yes happens to me
I have and always know why
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