I get anxiety about this?

[Anonymous]

I'm 25, and do online dating. So I talk to guys frequently onnthe phone I try to be easy going but I want to be more assertive. I'm more quiet type, I got social anxiety. I get nervous about going into the gas station. Any tips or tricks to help this? I feel like I struggle socially, my friendsnand family do amazing at talking but not me. Is this low IQ or just my social anxiety? I passed my CNA exam and my therapist said I would have to have average IQ on to pass. Currently working in the hospital. Am I okay? Is this just my overthinking?

[Fromdusktilldawn]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/wdpuUxIF3YE

stay away from online dating, its toxic and harmful for mental health, watch this dudes video to know why. I am similar: low confidence, anxiety, no girlfriends. But you girls have it way easier, you're just overthinking

[TallAnon]

Majorly overthinking, nothing to do with IQ. You're just shy.

[Changiis07]

Sounds like you are just overthinking and just need to get out there more to not feel so anti-social. I'm sure there's also a lot of video on youtube with people that struggle with this and what has helped them overcome this anxiety so look it up