@JDavid25 I'll admit I was joking about the first part.. but the second part is true, a lot of the things boys are taught about being a man or a out how to attract girls are actually rather repulsive behaviours. It's not really you guyss fault, you weren't taught better.
@RandomGuy1030 I meant that boys are taught bad behaviors that are unattractive... That said, attraction is, in fact learned. This can be exhibited through art, the female forms deed to be attractive have evolved over the past few thousand years and are learned ideals... It's rather interesting
Men are unattractive because of hypergamy. More men than ever are unattractive because half of women are already a class ahead of the other half men, financially. They can't satisfy the hypergamy
Since boys are usually raised by mother, then with that logic it's mostly women "teaching" boys "bad behavior".. But no, boys weren't "taught" to be anything bad.. You guys just like to blame everything on men and "the patriarchy" as if people aren't responsible for their own actions..
"We don't praise toxic behavior..." Ok... "yea, girl, go live your best life (sleep with a ton of people); don't take his shit (treat him poorly); know your worth (have unrealistic standards, and criticize the men in your life for not meeting them); find yourself (sleep around); you do you (sleep around)" Women praise all types of toxic behaviors, and this is exactly why a majority of women over 30 are single and childless, AND unhappy- because your peers cheered for your promiscuity and for you to embody personality traits that drive men away.
Lastly, you're not stronger in any conceivable way to a man. You cry, and the world will embrace and provide for you; if we cry, we'll still suffer all the same, but the world will crush us wish shame. Men all know this, which is why we NEED to be strong. Strength is typically just a title women put on to act like btches.
@JamesDiaz11 omg girls, one of them cracked the code and has figured out what all of these things actually mean!
Sweetie, you tell on yourself so much, do you not listen to yourself when you write? It's no wonder you're so bitter, with that attitude you couldn't pay me enough to sleep with you...
To that end, and to the extent of that you believe I'm not stronger than any man... Babe, I make grown men cry on a regular basis for both sport and for a living. And there is NOTHING that I dish out that I haven't gone through myself, as a rule... And don't give me the whole "No true Scotsman" business because the men I deal with range from CEOs to Marines to politicians... Even an MMA fighter in the bunch. Men cry, boys keep it bottled up.
"Babe, I make grown men cry on a regular basis for both sport and for a living."... I highly doubt that if you are dealing with Marines, CEOs, and MMA fighters.. đđ.. Sounds like a LARP..
Well, since you mentioned Marines- it's completely possible that I did sleep with you... Good to see you're over the hill and still petty tho... I'm sure I wouldn't remember your name.
I really can't answer that question. But ill say this "it doesn't matter if you're a boy or, a girl, if you are ugly with no personality you've been lonely.
AGAIN with the single and lonely question... Are you paying attention to the others that have been posted every week for past two months?
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Hey if you don't like the question, then you shouldn't come here. I asked because I didn't see what you're talking about. Also, who the hell wastes their time reading everything in this site?
You obviously don't bother to read anything - just blurt out whatever crosses your mind w/o even bothering to READ A LITTLE BIT. Damn! Do you really live your life like this?
They could be shy. They could have learning difficult or learning disability. That makes more hard to kept friends or relationships. Same with mental health issues.
That's exactly why. Single men have way less people they can talk. Women on the other hand can have a bundle of men waiting to pick the up when they are down. And the truth is it isn't the cheaters or abusers who are lonely. They are doing more than fine.
I been there for this girl all the time she dumped her last guy cause he made her feel unsafe and never listened. I listened i made her feel safe she told me. I am only her friend when she always kmew i wanted more
I'm happiest when I'm single. I've ended relationships because I missed it. I don't understand the concept of being lonely just because you're not in a relationship
I already do everything myself responsibility wise, hobby wise I prefer doing with an SO, so its just for sex, hobbies, and relatable company, not a maid. The type I like is far too busy gaming, drawing, or otherwise to be a maid.
@Nessari29 this is misandry. Donât get angry at men just because you voluntarily choose (yes choose) to chase assholes when you were younger and they burned you over. You could of said yes to nice guys and ignored jerks back then but you didnât.
Also quit drinking that poisonous urine called feminist doctrine to make yourself feel better. Bitterness will NOT make you younger and more attractive at 41. Itâs ugly enough when women in their 20s spew that crap but a grown ass woman should know better.
Woah, can't believe a guy here had gone as low as to attack a woman for her age and looks when he never met her. Screw it, I'm not gonna argue with someone looking for a fight.
@Rania05 no we didnât come here âlookingâ for a fight. But when a grown woman (and I never said a word about looks) makes male bashing pedantic comment like âIt's only their dicks that are lonely and not having a mother figure to do everything for themâ than donât be surprised at the blow back.
I know people hold men to a higher standard when they age. Nobody would respect a 40+ year man making a huge immature generalization about all women. Why arenât older women held to that standard as well? What she said above is something I would expect to hear from a 19 year old.
"Ugly" is also a personal attack, I do understand as man how you're offended but that wasn't the way to retort. You're making all what you said seem low-level when you began with it. I don't agree completely with her, but at least around me it's excepted of women to do all housework even if only dating. I lost all respect for a male friend's cousin when he bragged since married he never worried about bugs and that he feels he got a maid instead of wife but it's unexpectedly a nice feeling.
@Rania05 I never called her ugly. Never said a word about looks.
But man or woman you are expected to have more self control and better insight when you get older. That doesnât mean you will ever be perfect. But you sure as hell should be more wise than you were at 21.
Younger women really frustrate me with their views time to time. Yet I give them leeway because their more inexperienced. But when grown women act this way I have little patience for them.
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Because we are stronger than they are.
We don't praise toxic behavior and then wonder why it doesn't work when attracting a mate.
OMG..
@JDavid25 I'll admit I was joking about the first part.. but the second part is true, a lot of the things boys are taught about being a man or a out how to attract girls are actually rather repulsive behaviours. It's not really you guyss fault, you weren't taught better.
Attraction has little to do with what you are "taught"
@RandomGuy1030 I meant that boys are taught bad behaviors that are unattractive... That said, attraction is, in fact learned. This can be exhibited through art, the female forms deed to be attractive have evolved over the past few thousand years and are learned ideals... It's rather interesting
They aren't learned. 99% is genetic
Men are unattractive because of hypergamy. More men than ever are unattractive because half of women are already a class ahead of the other half men, financially. They can't satisfy the hypergamy
Lol "stronger" while also the ones who keeps demanding for stuff that detriments the others.
Bullshit.
Women are directly responsible for toxic masculinity.
Since boys are usually raised by mother, then with that logic it's mostly women "teaching" boys "bad behavior".. But no, boys weren't "taught" to be anything bad.. You guys just like to blame everything on men and "the patriarchy" as if people aren't responsible for their own actions..
"We don't praise toxic behavior..." Ok... "yea, girl, go live your best life (sleep with a ton of people); don't take his shit (treat him poorly); know your worth (have unrealistic standards, and criticize the men in your life for not meeting them); find yourself (sleep around); you do you (sleep around)" Women praise all types of toxic behaviors, and this is exactly why a majority of women over 30 are single and childless, AND unhappy- because your peers cheered for your promiscuity and for you to embody personality traits that drive men away.
Lastly, you're not stronger in any conceivable way to a man. You cry, and the world will embrace and provide for you; if we cry, we'll still suffer all the same, but the world will crush us wish shame. Men all know this, which is why we NEED to be strong. Strength is typically just a title women put on to act like btches.
@JamesDiaz11 omg girls, one of them cracked the code and has figured out what all of these things actually mean!
Sweetie, you tell on yourself so much, do you not listen to yourself when you write? It's no wonder you're so bitter, with that attitude you couldn't pay me enough to sleep with you...
To that end, and to the extent of that you believe I'm not stronger than any man... Babe, I make grown men cry on a regular basis for both sport and for a living. And there is NOTHING that I dish out that I haven't gone through myself, as a rule... And don't give me the whole "No true Scotsman" business because the men I deal with range from CEOs to Marines to politicians... Even an MMA fighter in the bunch. Men cry, boys keep it bottled up.
Have fun with that one.
"Babe, I make grown men cry on a regular basis for both sport and for a living."... I highly doubt that if you are dealing with Marines, CEOs, and MMA fighters.. đđ.. Sounds like a LARP..
Well, since you mentioned Marines- it's completely possible that I did sleep with you... Good to see you're over the hill and still petty tho... I'm sure I wouldn't remember your name.
@JDavid25 like babies and they pay me well for it
@JamesDiaz11 I don't sleep with them, that'd be crossing a legal line
Sure, you sound like a barracks rat...
Oh okay nvm... đ..
I've been single for over 12 years and I don't consider myself lonely at all
Because single women have the world handing them success on a silver platter at the expense of guys, especially single guys
Women can usually find a guy who is willing to be with her, even if it's just for sex. Guys can't find the same with girls.
I really can't answer that question. But ill say this "it doesn't matter if you're a boy or, a girl, if you are ugly with no personality you've been lonely.
AGAIN with the single and lonely question...
Are you paying attention to the others that have been posted every week for past two months?
Hey if you don't like the question, then you shouldn't come here. I asked because I didn't see what you're talking about. Also, who the hell wastes their time reading everything in this site?
You obviously don't bother to read anything - just blurt out whatever crosses your mind w/o even bothering to READ A LITTLE BIT.
Damn! Do you really live your life like this?
And you're the only one complaining about it here. I've been looking around and you probably are hallucinating
They could be shy. They could have learning difficult or learning disability. That makes more hard to kept friends or relationships. Same with mental health issues.
Cuz women arenât desperate, if he treats you bad then just dumb his ass
That's exactly why. Single men have way less people they can talk. Women on the other hand can have a bundle of men waiting to pick the up when they are down. And the truth is it isn't the cheaters or abusers who are lonely. They are doing more than fine.
Exactly @242plusinfinity.
I been there for this girl all the time she dumped her last guy cause he made her feel unsafe and never listened. I listened i made her feel safe she told me. I am only her friend when she always kmew i wanted more
I'm happiest when I'm single. I've ended relationships because I missed it. I don't understand the concept of being lonely just because you're not in a relationship
Because women are more inclined to search other people when alone.
Women have it way essier to get love in return than men.
If a man is single nobody cares, we're just one in many. We're not in a place of dating advantage as indicated by online dating's bias.
Maybe it's because single man do not receive as much support as women do from their own friends
I think it's not about the gender. I have friends but they don't support me really well..
@dophix Your experience don't change the statistical average. You'll never be seen as a man
@dophix well I teach University students and I've noticed that females usually support each other much more than the male ones
It's only their dicks that are lonely and not having a mother figure to do everything for them
You are proof of how much women just downplays our issues and blames our dicks for everything.
I don't know about the issue of sex, but the matter of wanting a feminine figure in their life that do anything they find trivial is annoyingly true.
@Rania05 why wouldn't we want an inferior being to do our chores
@Rania05 ok.
I dont need a woman to do anything. I can do all the house work myself.
Which means I'd only need a woman for sex, but women get butthurt if all a man needs them for is sex.
I already do everything myself responsibility wise, hobby wise I prefer doing with an SO, so its just for sex, hobbies, and relatable company, not a maid. The type I like is far too busy gaming, drawing, or otherwise to be a maid.
@Nessari29 this is misandry. Donât get angry at men just because you voluntarily choose (yes choose) to chase assholes when you were younger and they burned you over. You could of said yes to nice guys and ignored jerks back then but you didnât.
Also quit drinking that poisonous urine called feminist doctrine to make yourself feel better. Bitterness will NOT make you younger and more attractive at 41. Itâs ugly enough when women in their 20s spew that crap but a grown ass woman should know better.
You think weâre inferior yet are sad without us đ so fuckin misogynistic
This is why itâs 50/50 with my man Iâm not gonna do your chores itâs our chores
C'mon you guys got lucky. I'm not angry just my truth. I'm allowed
There is no âmy truthâ or âyour truthâ only âTHE truthâ.
Woah, can't believe a guy here had gone as low as to attack a woman for her age and looks when he never met her. Screw it, I'm not gonna argue with someone looking for a fight.
@Rania05 no we didnât come here âlookingâ for a fight. But when a grown woman (and I never said a word about looks) makes male bashing pedantic comment like âIt's only their dicks that are lonely and not having a mother figure to do everything for themâ than donât be surprised at the blow back.
I know people hold men to a higher standard when they age. Nobody would respect a 40+ year man making a huge immature generalization about all women. Why arenât older women held to that standard as well? What she said above is something I would expect to hear from a 19 year old.
"Ugly" is also a personal attack, I do understand as man how you're offended but that wasn't the way to retort. You're making all what you said seem low-level when you began with it. I don't agree completely with her, but at least around me it's excepted of women to do all housework even if only dating. I lost all respect for a male friend's cousin when he bragged since married he never worried about bugs and that he feels he got a maid instead of wife but it's unexpectedly a nice feeling.
@Rania05 I never called her ugly. Never said a word about looks.
But man or woman you are expected to have more self control and better insight when you get older. That doesnât mean you will ever be perfect. But you sure as hell should be more wise than you were at 21.
Younger women really frustrate me with their views time to time. Yet I give them leeway because their more inexperienced. But when grown women act this way I have little patience for them.
@rania05 by the way I called the behavior ugly not looks. Huge difference there. Read what I wrote in my first comment again.
never been single for more than a week so don't know
I don't believe single men are lonelier than single women. I think that is a false assumption.
probably because men are still expected to do the pursuing
Because Guys get less attention from Women than Women get from Men.
Because men are not dumb. They donât talk about stuff.
Its easier for women to find someone.
As for the video. Do better for what? And why?