Am I going to die single I just always have the wrong guys approach me I'm starting to think I'm just unattractive?

[Anonymous]

and I apologize I'm not the best picture taker

[uncleBobbyb77]

Hey hun, you say the wrong guys approach you.. I'm guessing you mean those on the prowl looking for an easy score, yeah? They aren't going to zero in on and be attracted to you because your unattractive. How would that make sense? You have a couple of beauty marks so your features aren't completely symmetrical but they aren't disproportionate nor misplaced. Your plenty attractive. The wrong guys approach you because most men who are adept at approaching women are the type trying to score and are playing the numbers game. I said most, not all. There's a lot of genuine, honest, more traditionally moral minded men out there but a great many of them have this one shared almost disabling weakness... talking to a woman he finds attractive, especially one he doesn't know so hasn't had time to fortify himself internally for the possible seemingly inevitable rejection. Rejection seems practically guaranteed because most women are being hit on by nearly every single man whom speaks to them at all every single day (whether they know it or not) and after awhile the reflexive reaction is a public verbal neutering by the women upon the men. At least that's how we "right type of guys" perceive rejection when it happens at least a great many of us do when we are younger anyways. Don't be afraid to initiate conversation or to ask a guy if he'd like to meet up sometime. I'll let you in on a guy secret, often times guys will get a puppy in the hopes that women will be drawn to pet the cute little rascal and it creates the opportunity to talk to her without him having to approach her directly and gives a subject matter to speak on right from the get go other than "I thought you were pretty and had to come over tell you that." Which is a lame unimaginative line anyway. It's safe because it isn't putting either party center stage.

[hyperben]

you aren't unattractive but you shouldn't compare yourself to the flashy girls on IG either. just be yourself and find hobbies where you enjoy yourself and get to mix with other people with similar passions, the right person will come along and 100% disclosure, being single is wildly underrated, sure its nice to spend time with a person but also you dont get to do what you want when you want it, someone tells you what toilet paper you should use, stinks your fridge out and pushes you out of bed every night then replaces all of your clothes with clothes they think suit you better! only joking but really, single isn't as bad as it might seem!

[Kekomochii]

I don't think you're unattractive at all! Finding love doesn't seem to be significantly impacted by one's appearance, anyway. Perhaps you are moving too quickly if you continually running into the wrong person. What I mean is that if you're interested in a person and want to take things further with him, you should get to know him fully first. It is better to slow down your pace than suffering from the consequences..

[Ms_Facesitter]

The answer is in your question. You let them approach you. You don't do the approaching. Start approaching. That way you get the right guys.

[lightbulb27]

I hope you find your mate, plenty of guys out there looking for someone like you. you are normal girl. my relative just got married around 36 and had a baby recently, took that long. She put herself out there to find someone and took reasonable chances, found him online. just be smart.. obviously.

there's definitely skills to dating and marriage and such. It's marketing and sales sometimes and work. maybe you are more introverted, shy, etc. You have to put in effort to be your best, be willing to change, try new things, learn. You'll see how many desperate guys there are...

I just got married at 50 to my wife, met on GAG... not that it is a dating site, it's not. So things happen, takes time, it's frustrating as heck, you do your best and that's that.

[lightbulb27]

I mean 55! wow... I don't like reading that number... lot of revolutions around the sun.

[VanillaSalt]

Your ordinary. Not ugly not beautiful… I don’t see the issue.


If you were beautiful you’d have similar problems except most of the men with real intentions don’t chase the really good looking girls. I don’t even try and date hot women. They have attitude and my odds of finding them single and them finding me attractive is low so it’s not worth it. Average is best.

[BJP21]

Holly **** give me your number. You are very beautiful.

Im in the same boat as you. Im not the most physically fit but as I guy I run into the same problem. The girls I come across want a sugar daddy or a gold digger or looking for the guy with a six pack with an unrealistic **** size.

[Jenny-Marie]

I doubt it very much with those soulful big eyes and a mouth begging to give a really beautiful kissable smile. You could possibly improve your skincare regime and also change your hairdresser to put some body and shine into your hair: it looks very dry and has loads of split ends.

What is wrong about the guys that approach you?

[Anonymous]

Look... Listen... I'd wife you and so it isn't your looks. 💯

If you attractive the wrong guys that has nothing to do with looks...
You need to figure out what you want and then make yourself a match for it. Don't wait around for the guy to come to you.

And while you do this, goodness sakes have the courage to focus on positivity and the idea that everything is going to work out. For goodness sake you deserve at least that. At least allow yourself to think positive.

[Guy13]

Must be on a bad streak of luck. You have nice features.

[Asker]

Awee thank you maybe soo lol

[bubblegunnn]

Wym wrong guys? U are beauty girlll y put urself down like that

[Truthatanycost]

Wrong guys is code word for unattractive...

[bubblegunnn]

Ohhhh! Aye sir duly noted.

[JBlade]

You don’t seem unattractive. If you were truly an unattractive girl…you’d know.

[Asker]

I feel it

[FilmGuy93]

How do you meet men? What are your dates and interactions with men like? What are your girlfriends like?

[Pudsmucker]

Put a little smile on your face you look nice you look good. You just haven't found the right one yet it takes a while it took me about 10 years and the dating scene before I found my companion.

[scott04sa22]

I say it’s Bad luck and you haven’t found the right guy but he will come when the time is right.

[Adogdog]

I have the same problem myself. I think you are really cute though, I would date you. :)

[Asker]

Awee stop it

[Adogdog]

I really mean it. You can message me if you want :)

[Juxtapose]

Get rid of that shit on your head and then you should be fine.

[noohair]

The true beauty of a woman radiates from inside and comes out as a glow.

[dantheman69696969]

there is nothing wrong with you a little bit of makeup and some curls in that hair and you will look amazing !

[EaterPeter]

Hopefully not. I would approach you and I know I would be one of those wrong guy. All the best!

[EaterPeter]

Every so often get pictures taken professionally for dating profile at least 3 different angles and poses as they require. Specially when you feel you are looking your best. I have some of my pics taken that way and feels like that was best thing to do.

[Malissa007]

Nope just wait on God, his timing is always beautiful 🥰🙌🏽

[Jamie05rhs]

I think you're pretty.

[maximumpower]

Change the crowd you're hanging around with.

[KrakenAttackin]

Pretty much any woman can get a man.