I’m 25 but men almost never approached me, flirt, or ask for my number? (Page 2)

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First of all I know I look like I’m in college but I’m actually 25. Embarrassing to admit but I have never been in a relationship. I can count on one hand the number of dates I’ve been on! Even in college guys never really approached me and didn’t ask me out and me being the shy person I am didn’t approach many people either (female or male). The closest to getting approached by guys would be sometimes when I’m walking down the street there’s some homeless men who compliment me but literally that’s it. I remember guys in high school sometimes talked to me but guys in college hardly talked to me and same goes for the guys at work. I know that if a man’s interested, he will approach especially if he is confident so why is it that I haven’t been approached in years? I really hesitated to post pictures but thought I should in case I need to change my style or something. I feel like my shyness is the main reason why but then again I see other shy people who are in relationships. School has always been a priority for me but after hearing so many people getting engaged, I can’t help but feel like there’s something else wrong with me that drives men away other than me being shy.

Subarugirl · Answer

If you want to go out on a date then ask someone...

chocomilk99 · Answer

Am 22n still virgin nvr complaint or rant about it on internet... so u know its about men validation  . Maybe someone heard u saying i am 10 being average 6

Paul09 · Answer

You need to approach them too! Sitting and waiting doesn't get you anything. And I know from experience. Heck I bet a lot of men even think your taken. Both sexes are grown adults, both should make the moves. It isn't the 50s anymore.

Avatar74 · Answer

You look very young for 25 in my opinion, but I find it odd you haven't been approached at all there's nothing wrong with your level. of attractiveness.

Perhaps you just haven't come across the person for you yet, it happens.

MrCommodore · Answer

😂 Look at the number of male responses, I think that answers it 😄

Pyrofox · Answer

Its about being a approachable. And thats the issue that so many women never grasp.

Rohaan2020 · Answer

Firstly, I rlly can't believe that no one approached u... secondly even if it is true then guys must be thinking u're way out of their league that's y they didn't approach u... i mean u're gorgeous.. that makes people think u aren't reachable

Anonymous · Answer

Is this a joke? Girl, you are so gorgeous. 😍 If I were a man I'd definitely ask you out. Hehe.

Anonymous · Answer

It is possible because you do look young. The very last photos I would have assumed you were between 16 and 18

joeldalton · Answer

You likely give off vibes you don’t want to be approached due to your shyness. You’re cute AF.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Are you petite? From what few pictures I see perhaps size and or they think you’re out of their league.

TroyDT · Answer

You look younger, as in "I'd card you to enter an 18 and older club." younger. Guys might think you are underage.

Rangers · Answer

They likely find your appearance very intimidating and feel that they'd be wasting their time to try

Hardworkingguy · Answer

You look much younger. At about 20. Even so that's not a reason to not ask you out on a date. You're so attractive. I'd definitely ask you out see what you are like as a person.

Twalli · Answer

You are gorgeus. Dont' let anyone tell you differently. I probably woulnd't have approached you because anyone who looks like you probably has a boyfriend, so why bother.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Most of us Men are way too Shy, Which is why we don't Approach. Your better off trying to approach a Guy you like, Otherwise nothing's gonna change

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Maybe you are closed off not aprocabble. Do you go to places where people get hit on like a bar or club.

JPresidente · Answer

Dude with a pink account trolling or attention seeking chick

AngelOfLight258 · Answer

I'm not sure but if you want a relationship, then take the initiative.

Hulk30 · Answer

it's basically not you but gender feminism because your very attractive what ya should do is give men the correct motivation to approach ya if your sexually attracted to em

Chthou95 · Answer

Poor baby why dont you trying approaching the man you want. Most men aren't going to approach you because most men dont have a chance

DubiousIntentions · Answer

I smell a troll. 🤣😂

Guardian45 · Answer

The problem is NOT your smile or your looks, so what else could it be? Are you unapproachable?

AmeerX · Answer

You look beautiful. It is not your face. Maybe you are too beautiful

Jamie05rhs · Answer

But you're beautiful, though! 😃 ... Oh, wait. That's probably the reason.

macjets007 · Answer

If you approach guys I can guarantee you will get a date!

Stevefiveo · Answer

If that is you in the picture, than you should have no trouble finding a date

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Hahahaha let me try.. Whats your number? 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

Iron_Man · Answer

Probably because they didn’t want to fail and be rejected

TheAfrikan · Answer

You happen to cross paths and roads with wrong people, try walking 🚶🏿 by my path and the next week we will be tying a knot 🪢 @ anonymous

Dreamclouds · Answer

Nothing wrong with you at all, on contrary you look like an angel. Maybe you just been in bad place at bad time.

dolemite89 · Answer

maybe it’s cuz ur shy but i think there’s something ur omitting about yourself in the description that’s the real reason.

Anonymous · Answer

Actually be honest... You're not approachable at all...

KingD98 · Answer

Even the most confident guy sometimes doesn’t care to approach every pretty girl.

msc545 · Answer

Hard to believe as you are very attractive and you know that. Are you trolling here?

TallAnon · Answer

Never? Send me a DM and we'll change that right now, you're adorable.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

So you need to approach men or at least let men you like know you won't reject them.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

blah blah blah, why dont you approach them? tf

nawtee_me · Answer

You are absolutely gorgeous, would you like to go out?

gowthamkr1994 · Answer

U r gorgeous, anyone should be lucky to have your number, I would be willing to date u online, let me know if interested.

BLP11520 · Answer

You are a pretty young lady , so i don't know

Mediterraneansoul · Answer

Why do you want men to approach you is one man enough 😂

Anonymous · Answer

Probably MeToo because those statutes will see you arrested for approaching a women

y67iuhhh · Answer

They are to busy cumming in there thongs to even get a word out

Anonymous · Answer

Wtf is wrong with guys today? I would approach you in a. heartbeat.

LiamSawyer · Answer

You're certainly attractive enough, I'd date you.

Anonymous · Answer

Dogface can the reason. I don't know personally so I can't comment on your personality.

D-Pad_Chad · Answer

What country are you in?

Smoothing · Answer

Based on your loss, I would date you.

PinkRose24 · Answer

Maybe it's your forehead acne?

Anonymous · Answer

Phony pictures and phony story, that's why.

jofares · Answer

You have got to be trolling right?

es20490446e · Answer

Enter the man's "orbit".

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

This is not a real concern

Guanfei · Answer

I'd approach you anytime.

Reddy4it · Answer

I find that surprising…you’re so pretty 😍

Fuentes · Answer

You must have posted this for attention

AngryCarl · Answer

So where do you go for men to approach you?

888theGreat · Answer

What is your number?

TrillXHippy · Answer

Maybe they’re just nervous

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