If you really think you have a lot to offer then decide what kind of guy you want. Figure out where that type of guy hangs out or goes for a hobby. Start visiting such a place. Or befriend some women in their 50s+ who are happily married and ask them to help set you up with someone. They will have connections and know moms/aunts of some dudes. But you have the right idea in letting the dude come to you so even if someone sets up a meeting, better let him prove he actually wants you too.
I would be more interested in the aunts/friends of friends type introductions than if a guy's mom wants to set you up since she's going to be way more interested in his happiness than yours & forget to mention the 50 reasons why you shouldn't get with him.
Bruv no way what's going on Is that actually you? you're seriously hot like I was thinking about my ex now I'm not hot, what I'm saying is I'd definitely approach you (I'm too pretty too picky and have huge balls so take it as a huge compliment) so I can't understand how no one's approaching you it's definitely not the looks
Girl, just su and be fine with not having someone yet. When you do, and he marries you, you betta' hope your relationship is pure. Because if it ain't, you stuck with some dirty bastard who you spent years with of your life with. Truly not a great thing to feel or witness
Well, you're pretty, and probably don't really look that approachable walking down the street.. Those two combinations usually don't workout too good.. I can assume that because you are really shy, you don't make good eye contact or look friendly walking down the street.. That's assuming you look as good in real life as you do in your pictures.
There are a small majority of men who will approach everyone. Most men however are nervous. Half these men will make a move when they convince themselves to man up, the other half will never make a move no matter what.
I would guess if your rarely getting approached, it's because of some energy you may be subconsciously putting off.
It all depends on the vibes you're giving. Are you giving off vibes of "don't approach me, I'm insecure" or "the water's fine, come on in". You could be the prettiest person in the world and the vibes could be all wrong. You're very attractive, but what message are you conveying? That's the important part.
I think you should listen to what girls have to tell you! I don't know what 36 of us punks doing here? Are we trying to let you know that you're attractive? 🤔. I don't know, but I think your fellow gender members have the best take on this, listen to them, sometimes they even know better than us.
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You’re not that bad looking. Maybe the vibe you put off was that you were too much into your schooling g than having a relationship w someone. So maybe that’s one reason why men never really approached. Maybe they felt as though they stand a chance w you. Maybe they thought you were taken. Maybe you tend to avoid them as far as you being shy. It’s hard to say w out really knowing you. by the way second pic is the cutest one.
Well I'd say one of 2 main possible reasons, they might think you are underage or you make them shy yourself, men don't tend to approach to women they consider the most beautiful ones since they feel insecure and think they will be rejected or that you are gonna be taken already anyway, can't see your body buy based on your face and the second picture id say the reason is that you seem to them out of their league
It's the shy thing. If guys don't think you want to talk to them, they probably aren't going to approach you. They are probably intimidated by you because you're beautiful and act like you don't want to interact with them. You need to learn some social skills and get out of your comfort zone and start interacting with people. The more you do it, the easier it gets.
Unless I woke up today in a different universe this is clearly a troll. There is no way a woman this attractive gets no attention, it's just impossible even if she chased everyone away with chainsaw someone will still try his luck
Some guys don't approach girls who don't smile or at least look happy in person. You may come off as don't approach me because I don't want to be bothered. Maybe your in the wrong places to be approach or something is turning men off from you
You can thank the feminist and woke moment for neutering all men. You probably never going to get approached by a man because it seen as misogynist and a act of sexual harassment for a man to openly flirt in public with man. Welcome to the world you created woman, I hope it was everything you ever wanted.
You probably come off too high maintenance or stuck up to them. You also implied that you might be queer "(female or male)." For me, queer women are a giant red flag/dealbreaker.
It really hard to believe this. I would have approached you lol most def. But don't lose hope. Some guy will always approach you. Try to be comfortable around a guy and give the vibe that you are interested. I hope this helps
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You say that but I really doubt it. If we were at a store I highly doubt you would come up to me and start taking. I haven’t seen a guy approach a woman in a while now.
I actually would approach you but if i didn't , it would be for some other reason such as , what if you didn't like to have a conversation with me or you didn't like me at all.
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I don't know why no one asked you out. But some people here have given opinions about changing your clothing style to look more "fashionable".
I think you look great with your current style.
Never change your hair, clothes or other lifestyles just to attract someone's attention.
And, I'd ask you out for sure. But, too bad that I'm from... somewhere far away.
If you really think you have a lot to offer then decide what kind of guy you want. Figure out where that type of guy hangs out or goes for a hobby. Start visiting such a place. Or befriend some women in their 50s+ who are happily married and ask them to help set you up with someone. They will have connections and know moms/aunts of some dudes. But you have the right idea in letting the dude come to you so even if someone sets up a meeting, better let him prove he actually wants you too.
I would be more interested in the aunts/friends of friends type introductions than if a guy's mom wants to set you up since she's going to be way more interested in his happiness than yours & forget to mention the 50 reasons why you shouldn't get with him.
If you're into traditional relationships, check out some of my my takes too.
Bruv no way what's going on Is that actually you? you're seriously hot like I was thinking about my ex now I'm not hot, what I'm saying is I'd definitely approach you (I'm too pretty too picky and have huge balls so take it as a huge compliment) so I can't understand how no one's approaching you it's definitely not the looks
Can you hold conversations once someone talks to you and stuff like that?
Girl, just su and be fine with not having someone yet. When you do, and he marries you, you betta' hope your relationship is pure. Because if it ain't, you stuck with some dirty bastard who you spent years with of your life with. Truly not a great thing to feel or witness
Well, you're pretty, and probably don't really look that approachable walking down the street.. Those two combinations usually don't workout too good.. I can assume that because you are really shy, you don't make good eye contact or look friendly walking down the street.. That's assuming you look as good in real life as you do in your pictures.
There are a small majority of men who will approach everyone. Most men however are nervous. Half these men will make a move when they convince themselves to man up, the other half will never make a move no matter what.
I would guess if your rarely getting approached, it's because of some energy you may be subconsciously putting off.
It all depends on the vibes you're giving. Are you giving off vibes of "don't approach me, I'm insecure" or "the water's fine, come on in". You could be the prettiest person in the world and the vibes could be all wrong. You're very attractive, but what message are you conveying? That's the important part.
Its because your so nice looking.
Most guys think your are already dating or they think your out of their league.
If you want this cycle to end. Your going to have to be more open, loss some of that shyness and just start talking to guys.
If the guys won't come to you, you go to them.
I should know, I'm a former Stud Muffin myself, now I'm just an old fart
I think you should listen to what girls have to tell you!
I don't know what 36 of us punks doing here? Are we trying to let you know that you're attractive? 🤔. I don't know, but I think your fellow gender members have the best take on this, listen to them, sometimes they even know better than us.
You’re not that bad looking. Maybe the vibe you put off was that you were too much into your schooling g than having a relationship w someone. So maybe that’s one reason why men never really approached. Maybe they felt as though they stand a chance w you. Maybe they thought you were taken. Maybe you tend to avoid them as far as you being shy. It’s hard to say w out really knowing you. by the way second pic is the cutest one.
Well I'd say one of 2 main possible reasons, they might think you are underage or you make them shy yourself, men don't tend to approach to women they consider the most beautiful ones since they feel insecure and think they will be rejected or that you are gonna be taken already anyway, can't see your body buy based on your face and the second picture id say the reason is that you seem to them out of their league
It's the shy thing. If guys don't think you want to talk to them, they probably aren't going to approach you. They are probably intimidated by you because you're beautiful and act like you don't want to interact with them. You need to learn some social skills and get out of your comfort zone and start interacting with people. The more you do it, the easier it gets.
Unless I woke up today in a different universe this is clearly a troll.
There is no way a woman this attractive gets no attention, it's just impossible even if she chased everyone away with chainsaw someone will still try his luck
Some guys don't approach girls who don't smile or at least look happy in person. You may come off as don't approach me because I don't want to be bothered. Maybe your in the wrong places to be approach or something is turning men off from you
You can thank the feminist and woke moment for neutering all men. You probably never going to get approached by a man because it seen as misogynist and a act of sexual harassment for a man to openly flirt in public with man. Welcome to the world you created woman, I hope it was everything you ever wanted.
You have nice face... there can be various reasons
Try answering some of these
1. Your body measurements
2. Are you picky eater?
3. Do you have confidence issues
4. Do you stay with girls who's figure is wayyy better than your?
You probably come off too high maintenance or stuck up to them.
You also implied that you might be queer "(female or male)." For me, queer women are a giant red flag/dealbreaker.
I don't see anything wrong with you. You are pretty. You remind me of my crush from a while ago.
Maybe you behave in a way that makes people think you are unapproachable or that you already have a boyfriend.
Try to give guys signals if you want them to approach you. Smile at guys you want to go up to you etc...
When you are shy people tend to take you the wrong way. It’s natural to think the worst until proven otherwise.
This is one of those things you have to be brave on. Don’t regret missing out.
It really hard to believe this. I would have approached you lol most def. But don't lose hope. Some guy will always approach you. Try to be comfortable around a guy and give the vibe that you are interested. I hope this helps
You say that but I really doubt it. If we were at a store I highly doubt you would come up to me and start taking. I haven’t seen a guy approach a woman in a while now.
I actually would approach you but if i didn't , it would be for some other reason such as , what if you didn't like to have a conversation with me or you didn't like me at all.