He Called Me Stupid On First Date?

[Anonymous]

First date. I was hanging with him and his friends. They had cocaine. I had only drinks. He was very protected over me.

A girl (she had a boyfriend) asked for my phone number to be friends with me. He stopped her. He said " She cannot put her phone number to your phone" I was like "WHAT?" He said: "What if they're swingers or smth they try to fuck you, you don't know streets and people"

Then we went male stripclub (his friends wish) He got pissed because I wasn't giving him attention I looked at strippers. We had a fight at the car. I said why he fights with me I'm gonna leave. He said "Don't threat me you're stupid" then I left. After he called me when I was Ubering home "Are you safe"

He's been reaching out but he don't apologize he says "you treat me bad all night"

What do you guys think?

[Honest-Matt]

He was on cocaine and he's a narcissist. All of his responses are from how it affects him. It's all about him. He's telling YOU that he doesn't want their number in YOUR phone. He's telling you who to socialize with. You go to a stripclub and do what you're supposed to do at a stripclub and he's bothered because he isn't getting attention. "You treat ME bad all night". And then when you call him out by saying you'll leave, he calls you stupid.

He needs a wake up call that I don't think will ever come. Move on, you are not his life coach.

[xJeremyx]

Never ever hang out with people who go to strip clubs, bars, casinos, brothels, and to nightclubs.

And dont EVER hang out with people who do drugs.

Choose your friends and partner wisely. Better safe and sorry.

[HighValue]

He called you stupid because you were dumb enough to be with someone that does cocaine and goes to strip clubs.

[Asker]

He's rich

[HighValue]

So what. That is a very bad way of choosing a mate. It is your life though, but YOU are the one that h as to deal with the consequences in life.

[magiusX26]

@asker and he lives on earth too. just stating facts that are irrelivant to this. another way to point out that being a silly reason to date anyone would ve to point out that jeffrey epstein was rich too, did that make him a good person? hell no it didn't.

[Asker]

@magiusX26 super handsome too. he looks perfect from outside and his character 🤢i was thinking maybe i made him upset or something

[magiusX26]

take this as a lesson learned. view past the looks and maybe lower how much priority you put on his money

[exitseven]

People try to make a really good first impression I can't imagine what the second date will be like.

[Staximus]

I think you shouldn't hang out with crackheads

[SteveZissu]

This sounds like the perfect start of the next Hangover movie.

[SteveZissu]

by the way, the fact that you end your question by "what do you guys think", means that you ars not sure if you like him or not and it's a clear proof that women are seduced by total jerks

[Asker]

I cried when I was going home 🤣 Not that perfect

[SteveZissu]

I can imagine. It's a part of the movie, too 😂
Anyways, talking seriously, the fact that you are still talking to him after all this, it's a real evidence that women are attracted by this kind of people. This guy doesn't deserve you, he is a total asshole. You shouldn't speak to him anymore, I suppose.

[magiusX26]

you now see some of his poor character/personality, that is your huge clue to run far away from him and find someone better.

[TheSpaceGnome]

He's right tbh. You were being stupid and treating him badly.

[Asker]

How so?

[TheSpaceGnome]

1. You gave your number a stranger.
2. You hung out with drug addicts.
3. You went to a male strip club where you proceeded to ignore your date and stare at strippers.

[Asker]

What do you think I should do now? And what do you think about him?

[TheSpaceGnome]

According to you, he's friends with drug addicts, which is stupid, but he also and thinks a person should pay attention to their date and not strippers, which is smart, and he thinks giving your number to strangers is dumb, which is also smart.

So thus far, He's 2 points above you.

Other than that, I know nothing about him.

[Asker]

He knew her. He made me met her. + His friends wanted to go to Stripclub. not me.

[AmeerX]

People these days. Fights happen and if you're going to fight him over small things then are you even in love with him?

[TroyDT]

You were on a date and went to a strip club? SMDH

[Anonymous]

Why would he apologize to some ratchet? 🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

He's ratchet not me 😂

[Googlemyahoo]

Sound like a very classy group 🖕

[EmmaMary]

Ignore, Block and quickly Move On.

[Petedavidsonfan]

Don’t hang out with drug addicts.

[In_Trance]

you mean, on the last date

[Asker]

Hahahahah yes 👏🏻

[jimmy2]

Wow you both need to change things up a bit

[Chaser3232]

Let him go!

[Anonymous]

Na get rid of him

[maximumpower]

Move on - NOW.