I met this girl online and we ended up staying at the same class, she is in a ldr, I was sincere and told her that I'm starting to have feelings for her so it's better to talk less or only uni related stuff, but she acted very weird since then, one day she told that "I thought my feelings would never change but something seems wrong" and said that needs time. And since then she takes time to reply now too, so I think it's better to not start a conversation with her now, if she wanna talk with me I will wait her to message me first, I don't want her to have pressure and I don't want to act weird, she is working very hard for uni too so I don't want her to stress more. Am I doing the right thing? Thanks in advance.
You are sounding like Mr. Needy. This is not about Games BUT you never confess and bombard someone else with your personal emotions UNTIL you know she is comfortable with you. It is the number one thing that gets people left hanging in the middle of nowhere or out in the Friendzone.
NOW, you have to act upon those feelings you expressed or you are forever a Wussy. Keep your most personal feelings to yourself until you are in a position to act. Control your tongue...
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You probably don't want to hear this, but this is probably toast.
At least for now.
You shouldn't be so forward with expressing your interest.
Basically, your anxiety got the better of you.
You were at war with yourself.
With part of you wanting her, but also part of you wanting to respect her LDR.
The former part took over for a bit, and the latter part prevented you from following through.
What should you do?
Back off.
Maybe if you're studying together then you might be able to build attraction, if that's what you want, but no more open declarations of interest.
Don't chase her.
you are on the right track bro. Just give her space, when she is comfortable she will come to you.
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Do you still have these same feelings gif her?
Just need to Relax You seem filled with anxiety Just With the way you Typed this post. If she likes you everything will workout. If she donāt like you then You wonāt Get her in your bed.
That's not the way you shall get to know someone.
The start shall be playful, and flirtatious. Not serious.
And if she feels the same, she will subtly let you know. Let her take care of the relationship stuff.
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