Is it cheating if she’s ghosting?

[Anonymous]

Me and my girlfriend had a fight 5 days ago days and we haven’t spoken since. I tried text/calling her and she’s still ignoring me. Is the relationship over? I just met a cute nurse that wants a date with me. Would that be cheating is I went out with her?

Yes it’s cheating

No it’s not

[KennethNoisewater]

Her ghosting you isn't cheating. That's her not talking to you. Definitely not considered cheating. Although the reason she isn't talking to you is because she is cheating. These are the things you must follow your gut on. I always start learning someones patterns right away. It's almost like I just study all their behaviors for the first couple months or year. You don't have to be a creep about it. You don't have to do anything weird to learn that type of thing. You just have to pay attention and keep mental notes. You will see them break a pattern usually right before something like this. If that's the case they are probably cheating. But it always comes back to follow your gut. Very rarely is that wrong.

[zeitgeist057]

I would send a final text and say, "Okay, well you ghosted me, it's really immature so I'm done here. Best of luck to you out there."

I wouldn't even bother talking about the nurse or anything, just say something to finalize the relationship is over and you are in the clear. Honestly, I think you're in the clear anyway because you've tried contacting her and got no response. A week is a significant amount of time and like I said, that's super immature so who needs someone who can't deal with their issues and just shuts down like that?

[Aerissa_Jade]

Very immature to not talk to someone you supposedly love for 5 days. Just send a text saying if you don't respond in the next day, you'll take it as if things are over.

or you could just text and say, since your not talking to me, we must be over. Have a nice life, good luck and best wishes.

[TrueConfection]

If she's ghosting you and you are left guessing what your status is, then my opinion is it's not cheating to move on. I certainly wouldn't wait around.

[TrueConfection]

Thank you for the MHO ❤

[MCheetah]

If you don't openly tell the other person you're done, then yeah, it's cheating, cause naturally the other person might assume you're still together.

[WhitneySnow]

Tell her you guys need to talk and there’s another girl you’re considering going out with. Then if she still ghosts you you can go out with the other girl and it won’t be cheating.

[PatStClair]

She’s taking the risk that he’s going to go out with someone else. And if she won’t talk with him, I would not blame him at all.

[OC1990]

How would you feel if roles were reversed? Maybe just text her and say you’re sorry if this is the end of the relationship and you’ll stop contacting her but you are there if she wants to be friends.

[darline19]

a manwhore is a guy who doesn't know how to handle his own girl

[dustybiker]

Text the girlfriend it’s over and you found someone else. That way you are cleared if she keeps ghosting.

[LaBokaChula]

It's not cheating, but if it keeps happening maybe she's not interested.

[boggboss]

Would u consider it cheating if she was with someone else

[Subarugirl]

If you dont break up first yeah that would be cheating

[Subarugirl]

But If you can't even handle your currant relationship, you probably shouldn't be jumping into a new one.

[MCheetah]

@Subarugirl
You said before you and your 'husband' were in an "open relationship." I wonder if that still applies now in November 2022...

[Subarugirl]

@MCheetah No actually I have never said that LMAO, show me when I have ever said that haha

[TroyDT2]

I would tell, :Have a nice life." and move on. There are too many nice women out there to deal with that drama.

[FilmGuy93]

It’ll be cheating until there’s been no contact for like 3 weeks to a month.

[Kiran_Yagami]

Text her you're breaking up with her. Then it's not cheating. If she don't reply, that's her problem.

[Twalli]

Tell your girlfriend that if she doesn't respond you will consider the relationship over. Wait 24 hours, if she hasn't responded then date the nurse.

[Guanfei]

No. Be she might ghost you because she's cheating

[PatStClair]

If she wants to behave as if you’re broken up and won’t answer your question about it, then yes… Go out with other people.

[Subarugirl]

If he want's to go out with someone else then he needs to end the relationship before starting new one with someone else... all it take is a 30 second voice mail or a text message.

[Anonymous]

Men will use any excuse to cheat.

[sirderpsalot123]

Just break up with her first.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Holy poop that’s Mario!