Why is it that it’s mainly girls that are attracted to shy guys and not the other way around?

[Anonymous]

I have seen that a lot on here and also on reddit where almost all threads or comments it’s some girls saying that they are attracted to shy guys and that they find nervousness cute.

why is it not as much the other way around?

[Berethor]

What you mean by other way around? and didn't girls tend to prefer bad boys?

[Asker]

The other way around as in you dont see many guys who are attracted to shy girls. There are tons of guys who say they find it attractive if a girl is confident and can initiate stuff.

Tbh i dont think girls prefer bad boys, at least where i live.

I think it’s due to current dating dynamics where guys are expected to approach, so a shy guy / confident girl is different.

[Berethor]

You live in a odd place, shy girls tend be better than confident girls, virgin girls are best.

en.wiktionary.org/wiki/no_hymen,_no_diamond

[Asker]

What about virgin guys

[Berethor]

Most girls seems to want an "experienced" guy, but some girls are okay with virgin guys.

[Anonymous]

Ewww nope. Not for me. I hate shy guys... Prefer extroverted

Can you help me?

https://www. girlsaskguys. com/qt/guys-behavior/q4927486-if-he-says-next-time-we-see-us-will-be-the-last-one-why-he-wait-a-lot

[cuckbetamale]

Ima pussi

[anon1903]

I think both genders have their preferences. For me, its my daddy issues. My father is submissive so I find that attractive in a man.

[Jdjfjcjj]

I prefer the "boring" woman versus the "fun" one.. while there is a difference in that versus being shy, I'd still take a shy vs "fun" one