My boyfriend is on and off with me when I had annoyed him he said really nasty things then took them back did he mean them?

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I had annoyed him so he said he hated me, hated time with me, hated going out with me in public, hated sex with me it was just to keep me sweet

Then a few days later said he just said it. He loves time with me, he loves me and sex is the best he’s had

Then again same thing happened this week he said he didn’t want to see me anymore and he hated how I am in public and tried to lie and say he hadn’t started sex that week when he had. Said time together wasn’t bad but wasn’t good that week.

We’ve lived together for 9 months. In those 9 months we’ve spend 4 nights a week together and had sex 4 x per week. We always had a laugh, he told me he loved me daily. Phoned me daily at work for an hour when he had to drive cars about. Said he was excited for dates. He also started the sex 2 times per week. Some weeks there was more some less. He told me loads how happy he was with me etc.

He asked me a few times for dates and I asked him a few times too. I usually asked him for time together but he always did it. Or hed say find something to watch.

We’d have 5 perfect days a week then he’d go weird for 2 days a week.

Did he mean those things or was it just to hurt me?
To hurt me
He meant them
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Is this emotional abuse

He also made me arguably commit fraud that would had led to me being in a lot of debt.

He got pissed off I was super worried about this fraud
My boyfriend is on and off with me when I had annoyed him he said really nasty things then took them back did he mean them?
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