Do you tell the other woman if you find out your boyfriend was seeing someone the whole time you were together?

[Anonymous]

I re-connected with ex after he reached out. We had been in a what I thought was an exclusive relationship the last 9 months. I recently discovered had had someone else the whole time and that he was with her when he reached out to me.

She has multiple pics of them together on her Facebook page and had one of him and her daughter. This would indicate to me it’s a serious relationship if the kids are involved.

Would you guys tell the other woman? As of now, I have not because I don’t want to be in the middle of any drama. I feel like, as a mom, I would want to know. From what I can tell, they love together.

Yes, I would tell her woman to woman

Yes, I would tell her anonymously.

No, I would stay out of it.

[TheCleverOne]

That guy deserves to rot in hell and his dick be cut. I believe in women support women but again, women can be bad sometimes, I personally wouldn't get mad at you for trying to help but you don't know how other women would react, I would still advice you to try and talk to her and tell her what happened. To be honest I don't think you have anything to lose because I hope with all my heart that you dump the piece of shit

[TroyDT2]

"We had been in a what I thought was an exclusive relationship the last 9 months."

Did you verbally agree to this? I never assume I am exclusive with a girl unless we have discussed it.

[Asker]

Yes. We both verbally agreed to this. We had had the talk.

[Guy13]

I would not get in the middle of it in this hate-filled time period