Would this come across as psycho for me to say to the guy I’m dating?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating this guy now for a month and a half. He basically classes me as his girlfriend we have like said we’re dating exclusively and that we aren’t seeing other people so I know what page we’re both on. Although I haven’t seen him in 2 weeks considering we are literally exlusive? Is it pyschopathic of me to say ‘I think that you need to make more time for me, it’s not gonna work if you only see me every 2 weeks’ I get that he’s busy but people make time for what that wanna make time for? Is it rude of me to say though because when we do go out he spends a lot of money on me but I just want him to know that’s how I feel. I just don’t wanna come across like I’m nagging?

[MystiKaL]

It's certainly normal on how you are feeling.

Bring this up in a different way. Say to him, "I think us meeting every 2 weeks is too long to wait and I would like for us to see more of each other". If he is crazy about you, he won't even think twice about it. I mean, come on, if I was in love with a woman I'd wanna spend as much time as possible with her.

If he cannot commit to spending more time, ask him what's stopping him. If he says, "I'm busy", say to him, "I appreciate that, but I am also busy but still would like to make time for you".

If he continues to avoid this, you will have some decisions to make based on how you feel.

[Crankor]

Definitely should bring up your concern but I wouldn't say it quite like that at first. But chances are he isn't really wanting a relationship with you

[Asker]

How would you say it?

[Asker]

I think I need to see you more?

[Crankor]

Start with what he thinks about you both as relationship. Talk to him about what you both want from one. Then menton you don't like not talking for 2 weeks at a time etc

[TacosRAwesome]

I think if you're exclusive, you should have time to see each other at least once a week so makes sense to let him know that.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Not much of a honeymoon phase. Talk to him see what he says.

[Asker]

Yes I feel like up to this point should be a honey moon phase but insyead I feel like I’m playing games

[Jdjfjcjj]

If he was going to be super busy doing X I would imagine he would tell you. Not giving you any warning, doesn't bode well

[Jdjfjcjj]

Even then no one is so busy they can't spend a couple mins just checking in, and then saying alright got to get back to whatever.

[Asker]

Yeah exactly my point

[Asker]

Someone told me today he had sex with a girl yesterday since I have close connectiosn with his friends so probably why he hasn’t replied yet

[es20490446e]

"Would you like to meet X day?"

[Asker]

I know but I don’t want to ask as he’s the one who drives and I asked the last time

[es20490446e]

Till Elon invents something else, the only interface between two minds is the mouth.

[Anonymous]

If he wanted to, he would already.