We are both 26 years old, met on Hinge 2nd week of June, and went on a bunch of weekend dates that included, Dinners, Movies, Mini golfing, board game cafes, and mall trips, to name a few. This is our first relationship, and we made things official in August.
This past Saturday, we engaged in a 2 hour sexual activity for the first time, but we didn't have sex; it was more a mix of fingers, kissing, etc., which we both found enjoyable so after that, as we were sitting, down in his living room debriefing the entire experience, he mentioned that I should not tell anyone about our sex life and that I should not reveal any details if people ask what I do in his home and so forth.
I respect his wishes but I was wondering if people do share intimate details with friends lol?
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Yea women do share mostly. Personally i feel like its a bad thing because it is very cringy to talk to your friends about what happened in a very intimate moment. It might be okay for you to talk to friends, but you're also talking about your partner while doing so, and thats his/her personal matter. In my opinion, please dont. Especially if he has asked you not to talk to people about it.
People usually share details of one night stands or if their partner is being weird in bed. Apparently, you don't need to respect one night stands.
I don't have problems if my friends share, but I most probably won't. I'm a very private person.
Αll people are different