Am I such a f@ck up?

[Anonymous]

There was a girl who liked me for long time. Her friends kept telling me for months. I asked her out and she said yes. Before we went out we kissed few times. Then her friends started telling me she is complicated, she doesn’t know what she wants and they’re confused of her. But she still agreed to go out. After we went out she rejected second date. One of her friends told me she said i was nervous on the date and there was not much to say. It really surprised me because after the date i felt it went well and when i heard this i was shocked a bit. Am I so bad? What do you think of this?

[jennifer_bloom]

I think this might explain things, I had a fantasy attraction to a guy that appeared interested in me in my 30s and when we dated, I learned he was a normal person and not a fantasy. He wasn’t abusive or unfaithful but more plain than rice personality wise. I was too focused on his looks to notice his flaws during the chase. I had a guy chase me and beg me over a year and within 10 minutes of conversation, he lost all his interest in me, because he learned I was a normal person and not a cartoon character or a Hollywood fantasy.

[playgirlrizzy]

Don’t waste your time over it. If they like you, you’ll know. If they send mixed signals like the chick you describe it’s best that you’re no longer involved with her.

[RavVid]

Well her friends are saying she is confusing them so why shouldn't she confuse you?

I think if you get along with somebody well than conversation flows easily. So if it didn't it was 50% on her side. But really that might be you aren't interesting to each other when nobody else is around. There are lots of people I am not interested in talking to and I can make that decision in less than 30 seconds.

Doesn't mean either of you are a f@ck up.

[Truthatanycost]

Don't waste your time dating. It's an interview. Instead, focus on your purpose, get stronger, financially free, build your kingdom and then interview them instead...

[MementoMori777]

Well her own friends said she can be confusing so I gotta say you might not be fault for this, don't change for anyone

[KrakenAttackin]

Move on, don't chase her.