She’s playing me. How should I end it?

[Anonymous]

(F20/M26) We went on vacation over the summer and we ran into each other again recently. She’s had a boyfriend of 3 years this whole time, yet she asked for my number and asked me on a date that we actually went on. She texts me flirty things and says she wants to cook for me, sit in her hot tub with me, etc. This has been going on for a month.

Here’s the catch. She doesn’t want to escalate until she leaves her boyfriend, but she isn’t doing anything to leave him.

I’m tired of being the man in the middle. It’s a really shitty situation to be in and I’m getting really bored. How should I end it?

Disappear quietly

Send our messages to her boyfriend because she playing me

[Guy13]

FaceTime her and say good-bye 👁 to 👁

[Anonymous]

Get her boyfriends number and ask him if it'd be cool if you f***ed her. I'm just assuming it won't be. That will probably end it for her or at the very least give those 2 something to talk about. Then just move on to another woman. And if that other woman comes back to you when the dust settles. Just say, "yeah, I'm really just not feeling you anymore" now she doesn't have you, you have a new girl who deserves you and you hopefully taught the other woman a valuable lesson. Probably not, but we can hope.