It got pretty serious between him and I to the point we loved each other. We're long distance so we decided it won't work.
We still keep in touch. He's dating someone now but he still says things like "I love you" he still calls me the things he used to.
Because he's dating someone I don't think he should be saying these things to me. He's moved on (even if he said he's just dating her). He said his feelings for me are unchanged but I don't see how that's possible when he's with someone else now.
Is it crazy for me to think that he shouldn't be saying these things to me and that he's clearly moved on.
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Cut him totally off. He likes drama.
He's giving you such mixed signals and it's unfair on you and the girl he is dating.
I think this guy still has strong feelings for you and may be dating the other girl as a rebound.
However, I'd be careful with this guy as if he is confused and doesn't know what he wants, you will end up getting hurt. So the best thing I can advise is to make it very clear that you wish to remain friends only, if he cannot respect that then it is best to ease off him.
Yeah that's the thing. I am getting confused and it's hard for me to let him go. And he keeps telling me that he still loves me and just dating this other girl. I don't know what he means by "just dating" this other girl.
Hmmm is he trying to make you jealous by mentioning he is dating this girl? If you still like and he likes you, he needs to be clear where he stands with you instead of confusing you. But I don't like the fact that he's dating another girl and telling you how he feels for you. These are red flags and you don't want to end up hurt.
Well I chose to ask about the other girl honestly. Just so I can be clear that it's over and he's dating someone else now. But when I did ask about her he was hesitant to tell me. And he expressed that he wouldn't want to know anything if I start seeing someone.
You do need to slowly distance yourself from this guy. He's not right in the head and he'll drag you and other women through emotional pain.
That I will agree with. He doesn't view himself as a "player" but this says he is
you're overreacting
Why do you say that?