WOMEN IN HERE can't attract women its really pissing me off?

[Anonymous]

Im 30 and can't attract white girls that I like. I make 50k 5”6 215 LBS Live in the SF bay Area it really makes me so fuckin angry. Please be brutally honest im not sensitive. Photos are attached

[quaranta]

Well, if you look around, you will see that even very ugly men get married at some point, or get a relationship. Just look on the street, at the supermarket, parks, at the TV, branches of your parent's family (not in clubs, beaches, apps). You will notice couples where men aren't so "attractive".
You spend a lot of focus on your "specs": your income, your height and weight, the place you live, but these things don't matter anything if they don't bring a good personality behind. Be shocked but I had 2 boyfriends shorter than me who made 0 money, and I am considered attractive and get hit on a lot. But I ended up getting a relationship with them because of our compatibility under many aspects and a strong bond that was developing out of that.
You may be not a "supermodel", but you aren't repulsive either, physically. As long as you look decent and clean (you do), the rest is all about your personality, vibe, charm, social skills, relationship skills as well. If you are covered of red flags it doesn't matter your look and your income, those things should be a plus, an extra that is not "needed", and so, not something to focus onto. Try understanding why women rejected you so far, each time, based on the communication you had with them. Probably there was something indirect they got from you that put them off...
Also: if you use dating apps, they are not representative of the real world but are made to select people only based on looking at their photo for 3 seconds max, and that is just not how it works in real life.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for this it really helps so much ;)

[Multi_personality]

1. I am not a white girl- can't speak for them.

2. Real woman don't care what you make - unless you are looking for a gold digger.

3. It could be your religion looked- people that don't understand your background might believe you are a Terro-- which comes from uneducated people.

4. Reading your reply to others- its seem you are a bit easy anger. Which puts up red flags for anyone - questions like is he going to be abusive- will he stalk me after I reject him etc...

5. You are keeping your search very bland- when you are just looking for white ladies.

[Asker]

Thank you baby

[BlueScorpio]

Mm are you open to other groups of women other than white? You might find you get better results if you give it shot.

[Asker]

What is it about my looks be honest?

[BlueScorpio]

Maybe, it could br their just mot attracted to you or interested enough. That's why om asking if your willing to expand to other races/groups of women.

[Labokachulaa]

Well, you're not unattractive, so, maybe it's a religious thing. They may have been miseducated about things and they're being prejudice.

Have you ever thought about dating other groups of people? There's Mexican girls that could pass as white, if that's something you're interested in? So it's kind of like you'll have the best of both worlds.

[Asker]

Fan luvvvv appreciate you do my looks scare you? Or women in general?

[Labokachulaa]

No it doesn't scare me. It depends on the area that you live in and how it is. What is the area like that you live in?

[Asker]

The bay area california

[Labokachulaa]

Hmm I'm not familiar with that area, but you may have to pay more attention to the types of guys that get the attention out there. From there you will be able to get a general idea of if you fit their type.

Have you tried dating women further away from where you live? Also, it will possibly help if you look into other groups.

[Asker]

How would you date people who live people farther away?

[Labokachulaa]

Well, you drive to see them when you have the time. Also, eventually if things are going well and you're open to it, you move in together or you typically move to be closer.

[Asker]

Im working a job overnight and its not worth it too waste my time unless their really that hot

[Labokachulaa]

Hmm yes that does definitely make it seem harder. I can understand your frustrations.

It would really only work if both people are willing in your case. Unless of course, you find someone close to you and who you deem to be worth it.

You'll find her, she's out there somewhere. 😊

[Asker]

What type of dress style and lifestyle do you visualize or live?

[Anonymous]

Just lose weight
Remove the hat keep your hair clean and shaved properly
You are fine just keep looking also look into online dating app too like Christian apps too etc
And don’t focus into one ethnicity you might be losing a lot.. what if there is a “ brown women” who loves you to the moon and back
So don’t be a dick think smart

[Asker]

Appreciate you

[Anonymous]

You're stressed out and giving off a bad vibe. You seem to be proud of 50K a year which isn't a lot. You're short but way overweight. You may not know it yet but you're probably gay since you live in the SF bay area. You say you're not sensitive which might make you the opposite which is insensitive and that's a bad thing.

[Asker]

The fuck no i ain't gay I was born and raised in the easy bay. A gay thought ain't ever crossed my mind yet so thats a fuckin ignorant ass statement idiot. You make no logical sense other than money and being overweight and looks

[Opinion Owner]

You just revealed that you get easily offended and can't take criticism. Plus, you have a dirty mouth. You're a poor sport and likely a sore loser. You're truly unattractive online and very likely offline. Why are you even wondering?

[Asker]

Thats why you posted under anonymously cause your a scared ass bitch. Thats one of the pre-judgement fuckin ignorant things I've read. Just in case bitch FYI most people that are GAY really live San Francisco and proud announce their gayness with the 🏳️‍🌈 pride flag on their cars or shirts. Im appalled and your bigotry and braindead ass consciousness. Words dont mean shit to me idiot their exactly that just words on a screen 📺 you think imma do anything but laugh at your stupidity? Try again

[Adaeva]

You can attract big women. You don't have what it takes to attract pretty girls. That is because, you are too short, you are not good looking, and you income is too low.

[Asker]

Thank you at least your real honest about everythinng what height is good for you? What can i do to be more good looking? And im working on income very hard

[Adaeva]

I'm 5'-6" and I may grow another inch. I prefer a guy to be taller than me. However, I change boyfriends every month or two and their heights have been from close to my height to about 6 or 7 inches taller then me. Guys I date are too young to drive so my dating activities are limited. I'm not serious about dating yet but I will probably start being more serious in 2 or 3 years. At this time, I'm in no hurry to be serious about dating.

You can't change your height and you can't change your DNA so, although you might make minor improvements, there is not much you can do to be better looking. However, it is possible to increase your income by 50% and, in effect, that makes you better looking and more attractive to women. Otherwise, it is difficult for you to compete with guys in the top 20% that lucked out in the DNA lottery.

[Asker]

I dont give a fuck what your thoughts are im gettin money and gettin white girls

[Adaeva]

But they don't look like me.

[Asker]

First of all you ain't even supposed to be on this shit your like a little kid iono why yo daddy ain't take your phone. Let the grown ups win in this world better go finish geometry hw

[Adaeva]

Not that it is relevant but I won't be taking geometry until next year.

[Asker]

Your a genius

[Adaeva]

My IQ is high but less than 145 so not genius level.

[Asker]

Lol if you gotta brag about your IQ your a idiot. Nobody that really smart are usually dont broadcast it lol it really just manifests in their success or their life general

[moonpie89]

Fix up your look. Loose some weight. Groom up better

[Asker]

How can I do that?