Well, if you look around, you will see that even very ugly men get married at some point, or get a relationship. Just look on the street, at the supermarket, parks, at the TV, branches of your parent's family (not in clubs, beaches, apps). You will notice couples where men aren't so "attractive".
You spend a lot of focus on your "specs": your income, your height and weight, the place you live, but these things don't matter anything if they don't bring a good personality behind. Be shocked but I had 2 boyfriends shorter than me who made 0 money, and I am considered attractive and get hit on a lot. But I ended up getting a relationship with them because of our compatibility under many aspects and a strong bond that was developing out of that.
You may be not a "supermodel", but you aren't repulsive either, physically. As long as you look decent and clean (you do), the rest is all about your personality, vibe, charm, social skills, relationship skills as well. If you are covered of red flags it doesn't matter your look and your income, those things should be a plus, an extra that is not "needed", and so, not something to focus onto. Try understanding why women rejected you so far, each time, based on the communication you had with them. Probably there was something indirect they got from you that put them off...
Also: if you use dating apps, they are not representative of the real world but are made to select people only based on looking at their photo for 3 seconds max, and that is just not how it works in real life.
1. I am not a white girl- can't speak for them.
2. Real woman don't care what you make - unless you are looking for a gold digger.
3. It could be your religion looked- people that don't understand your background might believe you are a Terro-- which comes from uneducated people.
4. Reading your reply to others- its seem you are a bit easy anger. Which puts up red flags for anyone - questions like is he going to be abusive- will he stalk me after I reject him etc...
5. You are keeping your search very bland- when you are just looking for white ladies.
Mm are you open to other groups of women other than white? You might find you get better results if you give it shot.
Well, you're not unattractive, so, maybe it's a religious thing. They may have been miseducated about things and they're being prejudice.
Have you ever thought about dating other groups of people? There's Mexican girls that could pass as white, if that's something you're interested in? So it's kind of like you'll have the best of both worlds.
Just lose weight
Remove the hat keep your hair clean and shaved properly
You are fine just keep looking also look into online dating app too like Christian apps too etc
And don’t focus into one ethnicity you might be losing a lot.. what if there is a “ brown women” who loves you to the moon and back
So don’t be a dick think smart
You're stressed out and giving off a bad vibe. You seem to be proud of 50K a year which isn't a lot. You're short but way overweight. You may not know it yet but you're probably gay since you live in the SF bay area. You say you're not sensitive which might make you the opposite which is insensitive and that's a bad thing.
You can attract big women. You don't have what it takes to attract pretty girls. That is because, you are too short, you are not good looking, and you income is too low.
Fix up your look. Loose some weight. Groom up better
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