Ladies, I come for your advice. Please assist. I'm 22 and she's 27.
We hang out a lot but early on established we both just want to be friends, we established this in October of 22 (when we first met) - but I have reasons to believe she may be withholding her feelings from me. I'm a pilot in a flight program and have been in this program for 3 years now.
Only now, in my third year have I ever had a girl fly with me on nearly all my flights (now in November of 22), and that girl is my 27 y/o friend.
In December of 22 we had a flight scheduled. She messaged me that she forgot she had a date with a guy that night and I told her it was more than ok for her to skip our flight and go on her date. She insisted on going on our flight and said her date can be rescheduled. Our flight was eventually canceled due to weather, so we didn't end up flying that night.
She also left a Friendsgiving dinner early to go flying with me back in November of 22.
A week passed after she went on this date in early December of 22, we didn't talk or see each other for maybe 5 days after her date - I created this distance so she could focus on this guy.
Out of the blue, on December 9th, just a few days after her date, she messages me in exact words and punctuation "I miss you. When do I get to see you again?"
Does this girl have feelings for me? Thats the question I'd like you to help me answer.
I took her at her word when she said she didn't back in October of 22, and the only reason I asked her if she had feelings for me is, people thought she did - when we were together in public - based on how she talked to me.
We golfed a lot in October before the snow came, always just the two of us and she called me her husband and even put that in her phone. She would also call me babe on the golf course and honey when we would text - this led me to ask her if she had feelings for me a few days later.
So, tying this back together, when she said she misses me - what does she mean?
Thank You!
