Basically I'm 33 I have never had a girlfriend because of my height which means women in my nation view me as subhuman trash.
Why is it that women would judge me if I went to another nation to find a wife?
Basically I'm 33 I have never had a girlfriend because of my height which means women in my nation view me as subhuman trash.
Why is it that women would judge me if I went to another nation to find a wife?
If your nation is the US as your profile data suggests, then I must agree with you that this nation is a third world nation for thinking the way you describe it.
Now, in Europe, there are quite a few men that travel to so-called third world nations in an attempt to find a woman to marry because they are unable (or unwilling) to look for a woman in their respective country. In the meantime, those men are no longer looked down at nor even frowned upon for doing just that.
On the other hand, seeking for a partner in a third world country is very well disliked in Europe because this accentuates the migration problem and possibly excesses and illegal immigration by relatives of the spouse that will seek to emigrate to Europe.
Another big issue is the problem of those men from third world countries attempting to travel to Europe and possibly to the US/Canada in a (vain) attempt to get a spouse for the sole purpose to remain in that European country or to obtain a Green Card.
The entire issue is very problematic in terms of migration but in terms of seeking love elsewhere, this is not really a problem anymore.
I don't think that a woman will judge you for finding love or a wife from someone from another nation. I think the problem here is the way that you put it. You say "developing nation". That comes off as you saying that it will be easier that way because those women are desperate to escape their country.
That is the way that I look at it. I am marrying someone that is not from my country. No one has a single problem with it. So, I would not judge anyone that did the same. What has height got to do with anything either?
I am 5'1" off the ground. Hardly a record of any sorts. I had no problem finding a suitable partner. Sure, it would be better if he were shorter or I was taller. It really doesn't matter though. We make it work because we love each other.
Oh, and don't give me this BS that it is because I am a girl that height doesn't matter. That is such a rubbish excuse. Usually, there are far more important factors at play that preclude people from finding a match than height.
No miss if you're short man in the west you have no hope.
I’m sorry but I cannot relate to the situation as I am not from the west, nor a guy, I can only speak to my own experience. Best of luck to you.
Don’t worry about it. The quality of women, if one can exhibit a Man-Up serving Nature, is returned 3-fold. Ask the expats in SE Asia….
I’ve witnessed it. He leads like a good-hearted old Seal professional soldier would…. gives her space to contribute and lead in her way…She loves him in an indescribable way. He leads though in gentleman's way taking the heat and letting go of Rulership.
I had a pretty good model, in which to emulate, when was over there. Probably join you 😎
Not all such men are judged this way.
However - the wording of your question indicates what's wrong with some.
Like: "At home no one is interested in me. Let's check out these poor countries where girls have lower (meaning= ''easier'') standards''.
These girls indeed are 'here', of course. But they aren't any ''better'' than the hoes back home. And so are the men who pick them.
It's better to seek a partner with your heart - not with your passport.
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They aren't looked down on because they look for a wife somewhere else, they're looked down on because the reason the need to look somewhere else to find a wife in the first place is because there's something seriously wrong with them. Nobody cares when normal men find wives elsewhere.
Female hypergamy means in the west if you're are a short man you are absolutely buggered in regards to dating
Its seen as getting a women who would be more desperate to be with u because she can escape a shit life but equally means u will have a crazy power dynamic over her because if she dont do what u want she would have to return
Oh but some post wall roastie have more experience over me isn't a power dynamic?
Just try do what you want to do, don't ask such stupid questions, and stop being paranoid over what you believe others will think.
What is your height
5'3" mate
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