I don’t think I have what it takes to be in a good relationship. I don't really know what to do?

[Anonymous]

Here are my reasons why:
I feel like my real self as a person is boring
I don’t know how to not sound boring without sounding either like a dick, a weirdo or annoying
I’m an indoor person
I don’t think of myself as ugly, but I wouldn’t call myself attractive either
I’m socially inexperienced
I keep screwing up every perfect opportunity for relationships
I’m always worried that my social battery would die mid convo
I don’t know how to say things to make them feel comfortable on their down days

I feel like there are more reasons, but these are the ones I can easily think of

Looking at these reasons, I feel like I don’t have what it takes to make their lives better and for them to love me for the qualities I wish I have

[dustybiker]

You could try switching yourself up? Get out and try new things this next year. Make it a year for challenging yourself just to see what happens. Pick something new to learn, something that makes you happy. Happy people by default are more attractive to be around.

[Anonymous]

Your true issue is that you aren't on your life purpose. Instead of worrying about whether you will make their lives better, worry about whether you can make your own life better. What is your life purpose? why are you here? how will you become rich / financially free? own a property? save up? serve others and learn to love the life you've built? Women are the greatest and most dangerous distraction for a young man, and they will never give a worthy return in investment when compared to discovering and working on your life purpose and serving others in the process. It's all about priorities. Build your Kingdom first, worry about females last!

[snowboarder720]

I feel that you may need to seek help from a therapist. Depression, self esteem, and anxiety are serious things that deserve attention that can affect anyone’s health and well being. Your mental health is important.

[Anonymous]

Well I’m age range 30-35 and have your qualities lol
It’s ok , you pointed out who you are it means you know yourself and so get close to people who are as you are … you will eventually meet one the real deal girl. You have to be patient.
You are not a unicorn

[Guy13]

Congratulations on being Average. Everyone has the same gripes about themselves too. Stand in a long line.

[slatyb]

What to do? There's nothing to do besides be considerate and see where it goes. If you keep yourself clean and know enough to chew with your mouth closed, you're fine. If a woman finds you boring, she's not the right woman.

You aren't responsible for anyone else's happiness. If you are in a relationship, and they are having a down day, you don't have to magically cheer them up. No one can do that. Just be willing to listen.

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's all about just worrying about yourself and that's what eventually attracts. Like just stop giving a fuck and worry about yourself. Bitches flock to that.

[whorable]

i think you’re fine the way you are. you’re literally me just with a dick lmao. nothing wrong being “ boring” some people like the causal type of personality

[BeyondBirthday]

Like the other guy said focus on yourself. You sound like you have some depression I would start with getting that sorted out, it can really improve your outlook on life and relationships.

[Anonymous]

There are a million books about this and counselors of all kinds you can talk to. There is a lot of help out there.

[Anonymous]

One very simple and uncomplicated solution is to just not seek any relationship whatsoever. No heartbreak. No strings attached. No fights. No nonsense.

[jimmy2]

I bit dad was not in your home