I assume that she's trying to manipulate me through my empathy. Either deliberately or not she likely wants something.
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The last time it happened, I pet her head, hugged her, took her to my apartment, made dinner, and also walked her to her home.
But I have always seen girls hate when men cry, they get terribly rude, and make fun of you. The last time I cried in front of her because of my long-term pet died, I got mocked.
So I can understand why the majority of guys commenting that they feel uncomfortable in those situations, empathetic men always lose in dating.
Depends greatly on the context. I’m always wary of manipulative crying, but if I know and trust them I’ll allow myself to feel empathy and comfort them
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I can only speak for myself. I assume she's either sad or having a difficult time with something. I don't presume to know what, unless it's my wife.
I assume that she's trying to manipulate me through my empathy. Either deliberately or not she likely wants something.
The last time it happened, I pet her head, hugged her, took her to my apartment, made dinner, and also walked her to her home.
But I have always seen girls hate when men cry, they get terribly rude, and make fun of you. The last time I cried in front of her because of my long-term pet died, I got mocked.
So I can understand why the majority of guys commenting that they feel uncomfortable in those situations, empathetic men always lose in dating.
Me it renders me helpless. I try everything in my power to find out why is she crying and making an effort to comfort her.
Manipulation, unless there is a really good reason for it.
It would depend on a number of factors. What did she just experience that’s causing her to cry? Who is she to me?
It's so cute!
But women cry all the time so it's pretty normal really.
Depends greatly on the context. I’m always wary of manipulative crying, but if I know and trust them I’ll allow myself to feel empathy and comfort them
It makes me feel sad and I end up crying.
I’m usually waiting for all the eyes on me assuming I’m the reason she’s crying and getting the cold, cold looks from strangers because of it.
My weakness. I have to help. Fucking idiot I am.
I can’t stand seeing women cry
not that I care I just find it annoying
My initial reaction to crying is very sympathetic, sad, and sometimes scary.
I feel like it's pathetic.
'Not again' that's the thought that comes into mind
It depends on which woman it is and their reputation. I'm not interested in falling for Manipulative Tactics.
Depending on the situation, it can either be heartbreaking or awkward.
I would feel sorry for them, and try to offer any help I could.
I usually cry when I'm having an orgasm.
I think, oh no not this shit again