Is going to McDonalds acceptable for a first date nowadays?

Question

A guy I met on a dating site wanted to bring me to McDonalds for our first date, which I refused to go. He then told me how women he’s been on dates in the past had no issue with going to that type of place on a first date, that the location doesn’t matters as long as you both are having fun together. I told him how McDonalds dates are low effort and it’s a innapropriate place to bring a date. After I said that, he called me old fashioned and insinuated that I was materialistic.

So, men, do you think bringing a woman to mcdonalds on a first date is acceptable?
And women, would you ever accept to go on a mcdonalds first date?

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

It's a first date . I remember when I was younger, a first date was usually a cheap meal (burger and fries, or a pizza), along with a movie, or going out to skate, mall, etc... I know times have changed, but damn! It's a first date! You're supposed to be more focused on getting to know each other; not how much he spends on you to eat.  And let's be real: everything is so expensive nowadays, especially food! Heck, not to play sides, but I wouldn't want to spend a lot of money on someone only for them to be using me for a free meal, or worse case, you two don't click and he spent lots of money on an expensive meal. Better still, if you don't want McDonalds, offer to split the cost and eat where you want to: how about that? Not trying to be rude, just saying be grateful and focus more on what's important.  Geez, kids nowadays.

itsalyssaagain · Accepted Answer

Materialistic things are shallow, bla bla bla but let me tell you something. You as a woman are valuable and if you take the time out of your day to accompany someone they should have some respect towards you. Taking you to Mcdonalds, like you said, shows that they are low effort and not trying to impress you. Don't let him gaslight you like that.

Purpleronnie · Accepted Answer

I think it’s just a matter of personal taste , personally as an adult I would never dream of taking a lady to McDonald’s as a first date / encounter. But that’s not because it can’t be a venue for a first date , it’s just because I wouldn’t want to take a woman there , it’s not nice food , it’s filled with kids and I can’t exactly order a nice bottle of wine can I? That all being said I don’t see any by it can’t be a venue in other scenarios or with other people it’s just as arbitrary as meeting for a coffee In one of those chain coffee houses isn’t it. What it boils down to those is that it’s just personal choice combined with the desire to have that first date. If people really want that date together the where just does not matter !!

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

"I am better than a McDonald's... this guy has no idea how to treat a woman... I can't believe I am here on a date."

Going to McDonald's on a first date puts you in two position. The first being at best "Friendzoned to keep you from going all postal because the judgment to do McDonald's would concern her. The second position would be an immediate ghost if she put a skirt or daisy dukes on to go sit at a McDonald's. I would do the second action because like she said, "this guy has no idea how to treat a woman... I'm better than this."

Summeroflove · Answer

Perfectly fine especially for a first date. If you’re unhappy where you’re going then pick another place.

He shouldn’t be mean about it. You don’t have to go. Maybe you’re just not meant to be. But yeah…. Especially as a first date. I think it would be fine.

Maybe a coffee shop. That way if things aren’t going well. Number one it’s cheap. Number two either person can leave anytime without it being weird. Like going out to eat. If the date is going awkwardly it’s hard to just get up and leave.

MCheetah · Answer

Actually, that's a smart way to weed out the gold diggers. I'd personally suggest a coffee shop or something (even though I don't drink or like coffee, but they're super common everywhere in South Korea), but that's just me.

If you're saying " McDonalds dates are low effort," then you obviously just wan a simp and he saved himself some time and money by dealing with a low-effort gold digger and time-waster. Who exactly are you to demand a man has to waste his money on you? Does your pussy light up in triple 7s and spit out gold coins if a guy puts enough money in it or what?

mamuma02 · Answer

I don't mind going to McDonalds on the first date.

Maybe the guy has his reasons or don't have much money. Some even go on ice cream date. Its cute. Even a walk or picknick is fun for a date, it does not need to be much or fancy. It should just feel comfortable and fun for both.

But I would not like to hear that he have taken other women on McDonalds on the first date. I would feel like he treat all the women the same and not treat me special. As if he puts no effort and maybe he just wants sex and that is why he does not put much effort.

Moose304 · Answer

Oh, this asker would hate me. At 64 I rarely "first date" anymore. When I did it was a coke and a hotdog date. THEN and only then if I felt comfortable with her I would invite her to my home and cook for both of us. This Coke and Hotdog date was my chance to get to know her before I spent a lot of money. I have VERY high standards (and still do) and if a female does not measure up there will be NO 2nd date. I make no apologies for being this way either. Yes, there is a lot of male trash out there. The thing is there is also a lot of female trash too. Most of the time you can tell trash by just looking at them and listening to them speak.

MelWinter · Answer

I'd definetly accept going to McDonalds. I wouldn't see any problem in that. I actually think it is better to go somewhere you feel more relaxed than to a fine restaurant where you would spend a fortune. I think the restaurant is better option for later✨

Anonymous · Answer

Wowowooww I can't believe how many guys and girls said yes. I personally think guys who take out a girl to mcdonalds must amazing in every way possible for this to be a successful date. I'm actually open to girls asking me out by the way, but if she takes me to mcdonalds, she better be fuckin perfect in every other way. I don't think anyone is perfect, so... this is basically a dumb idea unless you're 11 or younger.

If you're accepting the first date to mcdonalds, the person asking you out better be fuckin perfect or you have no self respect unless you're 11 or younger.

I'm honestly so curious how people are saying yes to this though, so if you did, please try to change my mind. I really want to know how people are thinking

loveslongnails · Answer

From what you describe, this guy is a fucked up loser. LOL He obviously has zero class if he thinks its a good thing to do on date #1. I'm shocked that you millennials seem to embrace McD's as a "restaurant" even, and half of you think it's ok.

Let's start with the fact that it's SHIT FOOD! What does it say if a guy wants to bring somewhere to eat CRAP? Not only that, the dude wants to split the bill? LOL I can just see it - "I'll have a $1.29 burger and large fries and a Coke. She'll have the same but a small fries, oh, and ring us up separately". That's a first date to remember - the smell and the burps will stay with you a while! LOL

Good for you to tell him "no way". When he called you a "materialist" because you said it was inappropriate, you should be glad because you dodged a bullet.

Finchie40 · Answer

Just depends on the chemistry , if you have great chemistry with someone then anywhere is good to be honest, if it’s a girl I barely know , I wouldn’t take her to McDonald’s but I also wouldn’t take her to a over priced restaurant either , I only take a girl to a fancy overpriced restaurant if her and I keep continuing dating

DubiousIntentions · Answer

Not everyone has the money to go to a nice restaurant, so why not? Have you ever been on a lousy date that wasn't going anywhere and you wanted to bail? At least at McDonald's you won't be out a lot of money plus tip. Of course, if you go Dutch in a restaurant it won't matter as much. Plus you can take all your food as leftovers take out.

whereismyjohnny · Answer

Yes, I would accept. I don’t see a problem with that.

SnowedIn · Answer

Totally. Not because it's cheap, not because standards have slipped, not because the world is coming to an end, but because it's easy and friendly and fun. Good first dates should be relaxed and allow people to get to know each other without taking a mortgage out for dinner or worrying about which fork to use for the shrimp. Enjoy a coffee or a frappe or laugh about stealing his fries.

BeMuse · Answer

I don't eat at McDonalds, that said otherwise I don't see the problem. Either you want to get to know the person or you don't. Apparently he likes McDonalds. Apparently you're not interested in him, but you would like to leach a free dinner and entertainment out of some random Joe you have no interest in.

TheSimFans · Answer

I don't mind it but preferred coffee or a very real public area. Going to first meet up with that guy in Manchester Park & Spencer. It is an English store. It's like a supermarket and has a cafe. I was on some dates at Tim Hortons and has been on a date at KFC.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Well duh. If she refuses Mcdonalds as a date then she's gonna be prude thinking she's classy no doubt. Which hey that's the way they want to live that's up to them but casual people are the best and for sure my choice.
I want someone who will just love a takeaway while watching killer shows not someone who wants to get a high class salad from a pristine restaurant lmao.

So just means you two have different ways of life.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends, if you’re both in highschool and going with money from mom and dad, sure! If you met in college where you’re drowning in studies and can only manage a part time job, then of course!
If he’s a grown adult without hardly any personal responsibilities… then he probably doesn’t respect or value you as a woman. That or he’s pretty autistic and just really likes McDonald’s and doesn’t understand the negative connotations involved. Although my brother is even more autistic than I am and he’d never take a girl to McDonald’s even though he works there!

HighValue · Answer

It doesn't have enough privacy for conversation in my opinion. I do agree with each person paying their own way at first regardless of where they go. I'd prefer to have a more active date, like bowling, pool, miniature golf, or a physical activity and then eat afterwards so you would have a chance for conversation.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Lol I’d take a first date for coffee personally.

First dates are about getting to know each other, get a feel for one another and seeing if you want to progress things.

Burger joints, pizza places, malls, skating-rinks and coffee shops those are first date locations.

Why are those good places? They usually, public, relaxed, laid back and aren’t an upright environment. Good places for conversation.

humanearth · Answer

McDonald's is gross

I would never do fast food

I did picnics, nice sit down dinners at a nice restaurant (nice as I could afford back then), homemade meal cooked from my own hands

You want the first date to be rememberable, not a cheap and disgusting

siseñor · Answer

Dk about your area but here the toilets are crime scenes & it's always rowdy asf. If there's a park to eat in nearby then yeah but how tf is he going to think you're materialistic for that? Money aside it's just not the best place to actually be in, like it's built to serve fast food comon

Luopio27 · Answer

This reminds me of an online date, where the woman was looking for the meatball man of IKEA. I was like, hell yeah. She was willing to give me that date but I lost my intrest in her after she started recomending shushi instead of what she promoted in her profile. She even used excuses like healthier diet.

No balls, no date.

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