Would you agree to go to Mexico with someone you just met on the first date?

[DaveJord]

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You met someone online, you chat for two weeks, you have a great first date. They invite you to go to Mexico with them next month on a two-week trip. Do you say yes, no or what?

I say yes, absolutely!!!

Hell no, that's crazy!!!

I say something else (please provide a response.)

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1 y

Try to reach beyond the face value of the post. We were together on the first date and the trip was over a month away.

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1 y

I do know this person in real life. I agreed to go with her on the first date... we have dated for six weeks since then, over 20 dates, and two weekends together. this weekend we are going to Tahoe for 4 days. Next week we are going to Mexico together, and yes, it is completely crazy. But I am love what's going on and going for it!

[Aerissa_Jade]

I probably would, but then again... I also would also be prepared that if things went sour, that I would fully be able to leave and do my own thing and get home myself.

I don't really see that as much different than say, you go on a cruise yourself and you meet someone there that you spend a lot of time with hanging out and having fun.

Only in this case your order is different on how things happened.

Then again, I'm outgoing, I was once sent to Eastern Washington by my family, alone to pick up some farm equipment and while looking for the farmers house, I stopped to ask for directions from another farmers house (not the one I was going to) and they invited me in for dinner and we chatted for a few hours before they helped me find the guy I was looking for.

To this day we are still in contact, and to think, all I did was stop to ask for directions.

Rural people are so friendly and nice... had that been in a city, that never would of happened.

[DaveJord]

Thats awesome memory you have. Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. I mean on the first date it came up in conversation and by the end she asked me to go with her to Mexico in 7 weeks. I was sure, thinking at the time she can't be serious. I think I said, "if we are still dating in 7 weeks absolutely, I will go." Her reply was, " why would you think we wouldn't be dating in 7 weeks?"

So, a day or two later I asked her if she was serious, because I don't have a passport. She was, and that I better submit for one quick. I did and it came in time... I figure at the time why not, at least I get a free trip to Mexico out of it with a sexy woman. 7 weeks later and it feels great!!!

[lightbulb27]

oopsy, don't say things like that... you may have gotten lucky that didn't bring her down, but she could bring it up later so be prepared to have a positive response:)

good memory, sounds like nice people.

[ShellyB]

This is either going to end up a story about an incredible romance and knowing he was the one and that kind of thing, or it's going to end up as a disaster, I voted no, but to be honest I think the people in the relationship would need to judge which it is. I will say this, it is not normal or typical. JMO!

[DaveJord]

I 100% agree, but its free trip to Mexico with has proven to be up to this piont an amazing woman, and romance is strong! 👍😁

You nailed it 100% I said yes, if we are still dating 6 weeks from now I'll definitely go with her.

And response was pack your bags! 😆

So two weeks to go, well see, but I think it's happening, cause this week we're going to Tohoe for 4 days. At very least it will be a lot fun and great ride, for as long as it lasts. Fingers crossed 🤞

[WindAtMyBack]

There is a pretty good chance I'd do it. I've always been pretty spontaneous that way.

I remember when I smoked I ran to the store to pick up some cigs. I ended up four states away and came back six weeks later.

Another time I had no thoughts of moving. I woke up one morning and thought "I'm moving to California". I quit my job that day and was packed and on the road three days later.

I've done a lot of that kind of thing, so going to Mexico on a whim is nothing.

Now that I think about it I've already gone to Mexico on a whim. But I was right next to the border. I looked across the river at Mexico and decided to go for it. I swam over, hiked around for a half hour and swam back.

[DaveJord]

I love it!!! Seriously, a free trip to Mexico with a gorgeous woman? Your crazy not to do it!

[Anonymous]

Sure, i'd like to visit Mexico anyway. I'd be delighted to see it and eat at their cuisine and see the beautiful Mexican chicas and mujer.

Beautiful girls!

[DaveJord]

Right at the very least it's a free trip to Mexico!

[Opinion Owner]

Oh yeah. I'd take it.

[coachTanthony]

No I love mexico but I am not about to get jumped by the cartel impersonating some chick online.

[DaveJord]

These haters are stocking you coach!

[coachTanthony]

@DaveJord you have no idea 🤷‍♂️

[zagor]

I think "great first date" at least implies that they met in person. So unless she is going through the bother of setting you up, at least you know there is a real person at the other end.

[DaveJord]

@zagor For sure a real person, we are driving down to together... she's a real person, sexy and gorgeous.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

After one date? Only meeting in person once? No, I wouldn’t. I would want to know someone better before traveling anywhere with them..

[NathanDavis]

Mexico, next town to yours, Europe, Asia, middle of the ocean... Jupiter

generally, it is just a bad idea to take off with someone you really don't know... is not only a risk to safety but also not a good plan to do that much of something with someone you don't know enough lol... and won't even be sure if you actually can get along that much or not

[DaveJord]

Look for my update later.

[NathanDavis]

my OCD will definitely do that... no worries

[phoenixgold]

I can't vouch for every woman, but a trip to mexico or any where that's not local for a first date, would have to be a polite no, and for me personally, I live in Europe that's a minimum of lover for at least 2 years and met the family, and that's the minimum

had a Guy ask if I wanted to go and have a walk in a forest at night for a first date and that was a total nope & that forest was local. I walk my dog in that forest in the day time but night time with a guy I just met i would pass on that with out a second thought

[DaveJord]

Well to be clear... she asked me on the first date... not as a first date idea. But I think as a guy being asked by women it makes a difference.

[BJP21]

When I met my former girlfriend I got to see real Mexico as in Mexico City and the agrarian towns. I lost weight eating like crap because everything produced was right off the farmlands no added anything.
Cartel activity didn't take place during the day. Certain towns had a curfew time, as long as you were indoors, you were pretty safe in spite of what mass media spreads about kidnappings.

[DaveJord]

Thanks, that is what I think too... use some common since and travel by day light and lots, and lots of people have great experiences in Mexico.

[lightbulb27]

Congratulations!

Not really mexico, but I did do that. I met her on GAG chatting, then talking, then we met first time rondevous on vacation and got married some years later.

you know her better than we do...

[DaveJord]

Right on my man, congrats to you!!!

[lightbulb27]

exciting! have a bailout option in hand. she sounds aggressive, take it your pace. enjoy the fun times!

[Sixgunsound]

Leaving aside the epic fail of an idea that it is at face value, I can't afford the bribes I'd need when I get shaken down by every federale in the city who forgot their lunch money.

[DaveJord]

That's a serious consideration trust me, it's been discussed. The federalies that is...

[Sixgunsound]

There is a fairly robust competition worldwide for most corrupt police force, with South Africa and Italy being top contenders for federal police corruption, but Mexico consistently takes bottom honors.

[DaveJord]

Yeah, so true... but I'll risk it.

[DarkCarousel]

No way. Maybe 6 months or a year down the road. I don’t know, it would depend on how well I felt like I knew them at that point.

[DaveJord]

I think every relationship you have is special and unique. So as a general rule I agree with you, but everyone person had their own merits, and when you truly think they might be special you tend to take more risks.

[Adam1978]

Who can just do that? Those things need to be planned and vacation times needs to be approved and so on.

[DaveJord]

Look for my update later.

[slatyb]

Possibly, it would depend on how well we got along.

[DaveJord]

We get along amaziningly one of those situation where you have only known each other for 6 weeks and it feels like it's been your entire lifetime.

[msc545]

That is your hormones talking, and that will wear off rapidly.

[slatyb]

@msc545 At this point, I think I'm pretty capable of judging people reasonably quickly.

[msc545]

I hope that is true.

[DaveJord]

@msc545 Well I an old enough to know when I an into a person for the right reasons, and when I am not. So yes, she's sexy and attractive... and that's more than physical. B

[msc545]

good luck with this.

[goaded]

Probably, but if I were a woman, not a chance.

[DaveJord]

Thats my thought as man with a woman its different... but if I was a women hell no.

[exitseven]

No way, I would be afraid I would be sold into slavery or poisoned with fentanyl.

[DaveJord]

Lol... fair enough.

[uwotm8e]

Which organs do you think you'll get to keep in your way back?

[DaveJord]

As long as they keep the penis intact.

[Anonymous]

Ever see what kinda things local Mexican gangs do to overseas travelers? I don't know man but if you're being lured it could end very badly.
Worried for u m8

[Iron_Man]

No thanks laughed out loud I don’t feel like being kidnapped. They do that there.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Great.. I've always wanted to donate my organs xD

[Camson22]

Whoever it is could be a crazy psychopath for all you know and could be planning something to kidnap you or murder you, Be careful.

[douride2]

Someone i just met. Hell no I ain't going.

[DaveJord]

Just met but it's 6 weeks away.

[Anonymous]

I guess, but I would want her to come visit the US first.

[loveslongnails]

Where in Mexico?

[DaveJord]

Baja La Paz

[loveslongnails]

I wouldn't do it. Shitty area first of all, and you don't know her well enough.