I just left from being with this guy I’m seeing like 3 hours ago. And I wanna ask him like if he still wants me because he’s taken 3 hours to reply and I get really paranoid. Would this be like a red flag to a guy and seem weird!
You're the one who initiated the break and gave him hurt feelings. You're only thinking about what others think about you.
You didn't give him enough time to process things. He might've been really emotionally invested. He needs more time to forgive and move on. And you're worried about is your own self-image.
Psychos are born with apathy and can not learn to empathize. They are not born with emotion. They pretend to care about others, so they can emotionally manipulate others.
Yes, you display some narcissistic or psycho-pathetic tendencies, but you would need to go to a doctor's office to be evaluated.
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If I was with a girl and she left and the first message o got from her is if I wanted to be with her then yes I would see it as a red flag thats the type of drama and insecurities I don't need in my life
3 hours is ridiculous amount of time. You shouldn't wait that long. He's obviously not serious about you.
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Nothing to be paranoid about. Maybe he hasn't seen the message or might be busy/doing something else. And I mean it's ok to feel like that, don't let it get the best of you. Try seeing things from a perspective.
Or.. Maybe he might be rooting for the most suitable reply he can give. Most guys are like that when it comes to texting with a girl lol
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