A girl I'm dating - why do I have to prove myself to her? I didn't hurt her, but I'm constantly proving myself to her or giving her reassurance when it comes to trust..
I have pulled back because this all the relationship is based on showing her videos, giving her reassursnce, or pictures...
Last night, I asked for an updated picture because she only sent me one picture of herself. I sent her videos and pictures of myself and my family during the holidays.. She immediately got defensive and asked what was I doing with her picture.. I explained to her that I wanted an updated picture since she only sent one.
I don't know who hurt her , but I felt last night it was best to pull back. Plus, she seems to have fears of letting anyone get close to her..
I'm not rushing anything, nor have we met... we're simply getting to know each other... I don't rush into relationships.
I have pulled back because this all the relationship is based on showing her videos, giving her reassursnce, or pictures...
Last night, I asked for an updated picture because she only sent me one picture of herself. I sent her videos and pictures of myself and my family during the holidays.. She immediately got defensive and asked what was I doing with her picture.. I explained to her that I wanted an updated picture since she only sent one.
I don't know who hurt her , but I felt last night it was best to pull back. Plus, she seems to have fears of letting anyone get close to her..
I'm not rushing anything, nor have we met... we're simply getting to know each other... I don't rush into relationships.
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We've been talking a month , but it's unfair that I have to keep doing all this extra work and proving myself
