Girls, Do you take charge when it comes to dating or are you more passive? (Page 2)
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If he needs me to take charge.. he got the wrong girl
I guess you're not a dominant woman
no, but not a pushover either
I like the guy being more dominant I'm an old fashioned type of girl.
Not everyone has to be like me, that's just how I am. If you don't like it I don't care
Some men want the bad ass Red Sonja type, there's nothing wrong with that, we all have people who match us (:
You're right, fortunately it seems there's a wide variety of people regardless of gender, you are okay the way you are and so am i ☺️
That is very true (:
He is supposed to chase me, I'll take charge in the bedroom haha
Well I like dominant women in the bedroom too but I'm too shy to chase
I take charge.
You are a Goddess 💕😍🥰
Thank you 😘😊
Man definitely has to take charge 100%
Depends on the woman
More passive when I was single
No third option? 😅
What would it be?
The combination or flexible ones?😂
I see, maybe, "I take charge and ask him out but I also want the guy to lead sometimes and have an opinion" you're absolutely right, my problem is seeing things too black and white, just because I'm shy doesn't mean I can't lead after I feel comfortable with the girl.
YES! After all it's just natural, when people really turned on things re just flow... then when u guys feel comfortable to each other that's when u can have options 😊
Oh and for ur case (maybe i saw it wrong lol) most girls, especially, don't actually say what they think 😂, they yes but actually not and the other way around, so again just try ur luck, u never know til u try, and if u get rejection or whatever just take it as normal because knowing that people have their own preferences and that's also normal
True and even if she says no, I'll be proud of myself because I did it so the outcome doesn't matter when it comes to that, yes or no I'll feel good because I had the balls to ask her out.
I prefer him to lead
But I'm shy 😭😭😭
snap out of it. the world does not bend to shy people. shyness is the enemy. it keeps you from your potential. women like to be chased just as guys like to hunt. so hunt but don't hunt everyone. hunt the one you love.
Or the one I'm attracted to, correct?
that's my man. you got it right
Thank you for giving me confidence
and tips when ur hunting, "cool guys still exist and I'm one of them." "I know what I want and it's you." "I won't take no for an answer." " think about it. " " Just a tiny yes will do. " Make her feel wanted. " I'm not a billionaire, but I'll care for you." " I'm very attracted to you. " " I have fallen in love with you. " " Trust me, you will come to fall in love with me. " " my feelings for you are sincere. " " Give me a chance. " well those are the words I remember him telling me. another thing is he told me he didn't come for sex. that was a plus because I'm a virgin. I still am. he touches me sometime, craves for me and teaches me about sex but is willing to wait til marriage. it's a big plus. on his side. Then after I said yes, he established some rules not authoritatively but quite firmly. he said he's a jealous lover so I should be careful. he doesn't share. he also said that he's willing to wait but I should not make him wait and then end up giving it to someone else in the name of cheating. he is ready to be my first. when he first knew I was a virgin, he was shocked because I mean I was 33. lolz but soon he started liking that fact.
anyway, I like that he is in charge. not like he's a bully but he is assertive and takes responsibility. Girls like guys like that, trust me. like when we go out and I want to go ease myself or something he will always be like "Be careful in there." I feel like he babies me but it's cool and My friends say they are jealous. many girls like a man who is in charge. I'm just giving you tips.
ur welcome. and being in charge is not hard. I noticed when we started going out , when we enter a restaurant, if I'm going to a random table he will just take my hand and keep me close to his side. then he will pick a table. little stuff like that is just so sweet and makes me relax cause even when he chooses the spot, he will ask if I like it. he also doesn't sit opposite me at a table. he prefers we sit side by side. he says "so we don't look like office people but lovers." oh my God. I love him a lot and he earned it.